Aha. This is what I want: 1. I do *NOT* want a woman who stays with her parents; I've been living alone since I was 18. Don't want the "oh my Dad is going to give me lip" kind of thing. Ok, at times you don't have an option. Lets put it this way, you should have lived out of home for sometime. Teaches someone a lot. 2. You should have at least owned one car in your life. Yes, that means you should be able to drive. I think everyone should know how to drive; Men and Women are equal or what was it women were fighting for? Ooh, doesn't mean you must have a car or a license, but at least owned one at some point. Weather on loan, or credit or whatever. To me, shows that you have taken some sort of risk. 3. No girls who write I'm (I am) as Am, and a lot as alot. Agggh especially the Am! At least speak Kiswahili. At least that's a language. 4. I like women who know they look good. Not because they are told; because they think it and are confident about it. Yes and who like their men PS: Not sexy, good. 5. No chicks please, only women 6. I would be soooooo jazzed if you are geeky. Not computers nessesarily, just a geek in anything. Look up the word. 7. I prefer someone with a . It changes people; makes them look at life in a totally different way. Not a must tho, but I wouldn't mind. If you have a , ignore 1,2 and 5. It is a beautiful thing to have your own little one. All in all; this is what is in my brain as "What I am looking for". And I guess it defines who I am. If you don't fit the list but you think you can change my mind? You are always welcome to try. My door (inbox ..) is always open! Hmm, that might just be my number 8. A confident girl who know she can get, against all odds. 9. Hehe - It would be great if you could read music and speak French. Ok ok. That might be too much to ask. (wink!) 10. People who do different (not the usual, common) things, because I like to do things like that. Like _ instead of going to the bar to drink, let's drive to the rift valley view point and watch the sunset as we drink then come back... _ guess you get my drift. Yes, this might chase away lots of women. But somehow, that's the point, to filter out people who I don't prefer, isn't it? Oh, if you don't speak any English then you are darn lucky! Number 99. Please, no "I am a down to earth, hard working loving girl who likes to dance and socialize - looking for a serious man blah blah blah" that all girls seem to be writing. Tafadhali. 100. If you are still reading, maybe you should say hello! Shows you are interested in what I am writing! 101. Still here?