A woman's orgasm is my greatest pleasure !! I am a well-educated. well-traveled, well-read professional, fascinated by all things "Female" and "Woman". I prefer to devote my attention and energy to discovering what my partner finds comfortable, SAFE, appealing, pleasurable, arousing, and (ultimately) satisfying. I derive great pleasure from that of my partner. I am intelligent, amusing, even entertaining. I told I am funny (humorous, not "odd"). I have well-informed opinions, and insatiable intellectual curiosity. I am gentle, kind, patient, attentive, sensitive, and an active listener. I try to be both interested and interesting.

My Ideal Person I find smaller breasts and naturally hirsute bodies more appealing.

Live alone, no children at home, no pets, not even any house plants. Available but not desperate or energetically seeking. I am not a "player", do not go out much; but am told I am interesting, amusing, entertaining.

I prefer to devote my attention and energy to my partner's comfort, pleasure, arousal, and satisfaction ... much more than to seek or demand my own ... I derive great pleasure from that of my partner.

My Ideal Person: Quite challenging to limit in a few written words: "I know when I encounter it" ... When a compatible companionship emerges, it just does ... a little serendipity, a little mysterious "chance" encounter, a little "luck", maybe just coincidence.

I find intelligence, broad intellectual curiosity, education and awareness/interest in more than the material, the superficial, the ephemeral and fleeting to be stronger features of a woman's appeal than simply physical appearance. Intellectual curiosity, world-awareness, openness to other cultures, points of view, and values are characteristics of a woman to whom I would be attracted.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
I don't devote much time to fantasizing.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
Wherever my partner fancies.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Mutual Masturbation, Giving pleasure, Discovering HER pleasures

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Ability to be discreet, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Nope ... I don't devote much time to fantasizing.

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