I'm a DWPM living in the SFV. I am well educated and well traveled and enjoy the finer things in life-fine dining, fine wines and the company of fine ladies. I am open to experimentation, sexually and otherwise. I like to act on on ideas as well as urges and would like to spend time with women who know what they like and want and are willing to tell me so that we can maximize the pleasure of our time together.

My Ideal Person I'm looking for a woman who also knows how to be a girl. Sparkle in the personality, wit and some knowledge of the world is desired. A nice smile and good grooming go a long way. I love the way women smell and their soft skin. I would thoroughly enjoy a LTR, maybe more as I'm an empty-nester as both my girls are in college out of state. I have a large home in a gated cul de sac that I would love to share w/the right gal.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Steely Dan, Beach Boys, Clash, Hall & Oates, Chris Isack

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Fetishes, Light Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level, A little of each

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
For pure sensuality, I think Andy McDowell projects the
most serene beauty and feminity for any 40 something I can
think of.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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