Let's start with the obvious: If my age, height, and body type don't bother you, yours are unlikely to bother me. With the superficial out of the way, I am looking for an intelligent, very open-minded playmate. I am a bit of a romantic with a touch of the Marquise de Sade on the underside. I prefer intimate venues and one-on-one conversations to loud public gatherings. Small blues venues are a current favorite. I'm a reaably good, creative cook and love cooking for someone who appreciates it. If you happen to be sitting naked on the counter while I’m cooking, all the better. There are, of course, other things that can be done with food. I enjoy conversations on a wide range of subjects. My senses of humor and irony are very off-the-wall. Sex is always a good topic for conversation. I like to talk about it, do it, write about it, explore it. My limits are probably further out than yours are but I could be wrong about that. If any of this sounds interesting, let's connect and see if anything happens. I have very eclectic tastes in just about everything. I like Japanese, classical, graphic, and some contemporary art; Mexican, Thai, Indian, Italian, Japanese, Chinese, and Peruvian food; almost any music with limits on the country and western genre; science fiction, classics, non-fiction, erotica, and poetry. I enjoy fine wines (particularly reds) but am by no means a wine snob. I don’t do beer or champagne because alcohol that isn’t finished fermenting gives me a headache but I have no problem with what you choose to drink. I’m well past the point of tolerating coy little games and tend to be very up front in a conversation. I’m interested an intimate, but not restrictive relationship. If your goal is marriage, contact someone else. I’ve been in two long-term relationships (23 years and 10 years). I’m comfortable being on my own now and am not looking to change that. I’ll show you a great time, but if you expect me to be your “everything,” I’m not interested in the job. By the way, if you understand my screen name you’ve already told me a lot about yourself and we definitely need to talk. If not, don’t worry about it. It’s a bit obscure and I’ll be happy to explain it if you’re interested.

My Ideal Person I’m looking for a woman with a strong sense of self, minimal hang-ups, and an extremely open and curious mind. I’m well past needing or wanting to play games. Frank communication is all I’m interested in. If you’ve read my profile, you know the things I enjoy. If you’re looking for mountain climbing partner, look elsewhere. I expend enough energy in my work and am looking for someone to relax with. If you like being treated like a lady in public and courtesan in private, let’s connect.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
Again, we'll talk.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
No particular place

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Not really into celebs

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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