Thanks for checking out my profile. Here's a little about me... I love going out. I love staying in. Late to bed, early to rise. I don't like to waste time. Love seeing lots of live music, movies, cooking (and dining out, but you won't be disappointed in staying in for dinner/dessert), exploring, hiking, of course sex (why else would I be here), politics, stupid trivia, etc., etc., etc. Right now, good times and seeing what's out there are important to me, since I'm single for the first time in many years and looking to explore. Hope you are, too. Not looking for a one-night stand, either. I have some game, but I'm just not a player. The bar scene is for me to imbibe and hang out with friends, not have to work to try and get laid. If we hit it off, friends-with-benefits is fine for a while. If it leads further, we'll have to see. I don't believe in forcing things. I've been disease-free this long, so meeting up with clean, "somewhat" scrupulous women is important. My life's all about balance and doing what's right for the moment. Spontaneity beats routine. You have to run with your impulses. If it feels right, go for it. Never regret anything, because at one point, it was what you wanted.

My Ideal Person I'd like to find someone with a good head on her shoulders and not a game player. Been through the crazy-girl thing before and not looking to have to deal with that again. I'd also like to be physically and intellectually into you. I like to learn and grow from from experience. Also, try not to fall in love with me too soon. I tend to have that effect on some people.

You have to have a good, if somewhat perverse (at times), sense of humor, too.

Let's chat sometime.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
WEEN, The Melvins, Mastadon, QOTSA, DEVO, Mr. Bungle,
Flaming Lips, Sonic Youth, etc., etc., etc.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
We meet up with your friends, or maybe just one friend, actually,
we'll call her Jill, at a bar, and we get kind of drunk.
While we're playing pool, she bends over to line up
her shot and we notice she's not wearing any panties.
That's when we decide that she's had too much to
drink and escort her home. Because it's not safe for
her to walk home alone at night. <br><br>
So on the way home from dropping off Jill, we pass through
a dark alley and I tie you up. With the gentle embrace of my
arms. And I hold you tight as a soft mist covers us. And my
hand moves toward your, your hand so I can pull, or guide
you willingly, back to my place, and climb into my nice big
warm bed. I will not to relate my desire to dress you like
a schoolgirl, apply nipple clamps, and play sadistic headmaster.
<br><br>
There's whipped cream in the refrigerator. I spray
some on your…whatever you prefer to call your vagina. Then
I get out my camera and make sure it's turned off. I will
not talk about using sex toys in our lovemaking or a spanking
scenario. <br><br>
I put my finger up your— i will not say "ass."
<br><br>
"Lips". Up to your lips. Like, to hush you, because
the moment is so awe-inspiring. Then I move my hand to the
back of your head and, um, stroke your hair. And then we make
gentle, respectful, beautiful love. Then we cuddle. And
that's what my fantasy is. <br><br>
Want real dirty talk? Maybe whe we chat ;)

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Light Bondage, Candle Wax, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds, Latex, Massage

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Celebrity is overrated. Anyone can look good airbrushed
and/or professionally groomed.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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