You can read all the crazy stuff below but basically, it is simple.....or so I thought. I am just a pretty average decent nice single guy that would like to meet a woman that has a similiar life, similiar needs, and is like minded. I am a single father with two busy boys, run a small business, and help to take care of family members........so I don’t have much time for the dating game. I lost my partner about two years ago, so I left an active sex life behind and concentrated on other things. Now, I miss the companionship of a nice woman and of course......damn, I miss the sex! I would like to meet a woman that is willing to meet at least every other weekend, possibly more if you live close (have hot tub for fun dips), for a little companionship, friendship, fun out, conversation, laughs, and a lot of incredible mutual satisfying sex. Ok, the ususal stats: I am a SWM, 41yo, 5'11", 185#, medium build, small belly but working on it....ya know, work in progress..Medium brn hair, hazel eyes, nice teeth, goatee neatly trimmed, very clean, active, d/d free, 7.5" cut v-safe shaved, long-lasting cock. I just love it but am tired of playing with it by myself. It needs to be shared. I have always been told I have a nice ass and piercing eyes. I have a few tats and very little body hair and a nice smooth chest...no ape here! I consider myself to be fairly good looking, healthy (try to take good care of myself), very courteous always opening the door for others and saying "how ya doing", considerate, and respectful of others wishes and bounderies. I have a very high sex drive but still know how to act like a gentleman. I am usually well received and have been told that I am a good conversationalist and fun to be around. I am always the gentleman in public and a bad boy in the bedroom where the kinky side of me comes out. I adore a woman’s body and all it’s pleasures, I am very giving and my pleasure comes from yours. I miss that feeling of a woman’s body next to mine soo much. My likes are many and include lots of touching, teasing, kissing, oral (giving almost more than receiving), M/M, xxx movies, I love watching/being watched, chronic masturbator and love others who are as well, toys, love dirty talk, marathons, gentle and mild to fast and furious. Favorite place to have sex is a great comfy couch and fav positions are missionary in a slow passionate ...,a woman that loves to be on top, knows how to work her saddle and truly knows how to ride, and who doesn't like doggy? Outside the bedroom I enjoy spending quality time one on one having fun out, dinner, movie, theatre, nice walks with the dogs, cooking together, BBQ, games, weekend trips, sightseeing, long drives, etc. Also know how just stay in and relax. My dislikes are few and include pain, fakes, time-wasters, and dishonesty. Oh yeah...and those that say they are gonna show and don't...not here for that drama. Leave the drama for your mama! I am very single but because of my busy life and family, I prefer not to entertain, but am willing to drive for a quality friend. And I don’t even mind paying for the room if necessary. Although I am single, don't mind if you are or aren't, that your business, I only ask that you have the time and when with me it is our time. Don't want to deal with any drama.

My Ideal Person I would like to meet one woman. Not looking to hook up with alot of people. Good times have to include inside and outside of bedroom. You can be seen with me in public. I keep a very busy schedule and do not have much free time, or time to waste on the dating or bar scene. I am very selective and looking for someone to match my personality, wants, needs, drive and stamina. Someone who needs all these things and their urges satisfied as well. Reliability and honesty are a must. A mutually respectful friendship.

Must be sexy and can carry yourself respectfully in public. Sexy comes in all kinds of packages, big or small, I think true sexiness comes from within. Sorry, but physical attraction is a must!........chemistry is key. Can't help who or what I am attracted to. I adore all women but am absolutely turned on by sexy older women, especially the plain jane/soccor mom/soph. type that can't get enough once behind closed doors. A great personality is a must. Looking for a lady in the streets, and a freak in the sheets. No game players, liars, time wasters. Just want to meet quality people that know who they are and what they want, can go out and get it with no bs.

Any takers? Send me a message and a pic or too is nice....face shots and whole body shots are appreciated....and doesn't need to be nude either....that can come later.. I am also interested in your face, eyes, and smile...all important chemistry starters!

I also love to visit the city, San Francisco and Sacramento.. Make monthly trips to treat myself to a nice dinner, drinks, show or play, and a room. Would like to meet someone in either city to enjoy these things with me as a good friend and incredible sex partner.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Maroon 5, Matchbox 20,

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
One of my recurring fantasies is to visit my lover at her
place of work, where she sits at her lonely desk in her lonely
cubicle all day. Unnoticed, I would slip under her desk
to lift up her skirt to find a bare pussy with no panties on.
I bury my face into her wet pussy and lick and eat it until
she cums all over my face. Only she has to try to keep her compsure
while coworkers are all around. After finishing, she takes
me in the stock room to return the favor and suck my rock hard
cock till I cum all over hre face.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Spanking, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Massage

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Drew Barrymore does it for me, something about those lips
around my dick that gets it hard.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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