I’m really not looking for anything major or long term... but, if it lands in my lap I’m not going to run away from it. I’ve no aversion to relationship; I’m just not looking for it. I am looking for energetic and enthusiastic companionship, I feel like life is way to short to not enjoy the time we are here. Be honest and upfront. If you are interested, that's great, don't be shy, let’s get to know each other - if I approach you and you’re not interested, a simple no thanks is not only appreciated, it’s respectful. No games, no hassles, and no baggage - I’m free and clear and looking for the same... I am not sure why everybody is here, but I'm just looking for new friends, and if I make a connection, well that's ok with me.

My Ideal Person I'd love to find a free spirited warrior type. Age, race and size are not as important as personality. This doesn't mean I’m not picky, just not hung up on the physical. Confidence is sexy, honesty is attractive, and a good attitude is very desirable. I love people that are open and sincere, and courteous enough to not make assumptions about anyone. I like people who just take life as it is offered to them and doesn’t look for the negatives. Don’t get me wrong, you have to have goals and ambition to make something of yourself, but not at the expense of yourself or others. I admire aggressive, intelligent and independent women.

Just a note here:
I’ve read in profiles of women that complain about people that keep writing them over and over, after they don’t send any replies. If your not interested, why not just send them a “not interested” and maybe they will stop writing you. I realize the system in A.F.F. works to the advantage for women just by the sheer number of men to women. Personally, if I write you I don’t have any idea if you have seen my letter or not if I don’t get a reply of some sort. Ill try 2-3 times just in case I get lost in the shuffle (and hate doing so, for fear of being one of those guys). If you have a standard membership and are limited to the number of responses per day, consider an upgrade and start sending out some “no thanks” if you are overwhelmed. I upgraded to gold not just for my convenience but for the convenience of all.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Rob Zombie, Mingo Fishtrap, George Clinton, Bootsy Collins,
Elton John...

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Sadomasochism, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Fetishes, Light Bondage, Spanking, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds, Fisting, Massage

Have you ever had cybersex?:
Not yet, but I definitely want to try it.

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