[COLOR blue]Looking for someone to keep up with me,,, Out of doors.. and in the bedroom.. My interests are wide, music wise, I enjoy live Jazz & Blues, Chantral Chamberland, I recommend you try her website, you will not be disappointed, let me know what you think!! I am fun loving and playful, as well as have a complex side with much depth and introspection. I know myself well, and know what it is that I am looking for in a partner. I am an honest per, even when it is difficult, or uncomfortable, and surround myself with pers likewise. Trust in relationships is essential, it must be the foundation on which they are built. I am looking for that special chemistry that creates a bond and a passion for another. I want to feel the electric intensity that explodes from your chest and permeates through your body causing the moment to stand still just from a look or a touch of that elusive per. If not long term then with someone, short term is a possibility just to be together, and enjoy local activities with. Discussion here, briefly re.. "why the internet?" That means I am looking for you to write and tell me a bit on why you are here, and perhaps your experiences utilizing this medium, if you have not already done that in your profile, it should be apparent why I am here,, to find you!!! For you to find me.. What I have found so far, well at this site.. lots of talk talk talk, Women who do not check their email on a regular basis, or who lose interest quickly, they appear to swing from one branch to the next without exploring the potential right in front of them, OK to continue, I dislike self-promotion but given this medium here goes: Educated yet grounded. Know the difference between wants and needs. While I'm fortunate to have life-long friends, I’d like to meet someone single, to share those things in life that are better shared in two's. I think I could be accurately described as intelligent & thoughtful without needing to be "deep"; I am, if nothing else, funny & outgoing without being obnoxious; supportive and affectionate without being smothering; good looking without being cookie-cutter ordinary; I adore leisure when I can get it, and value free time & just spending time out of doors. I love exploring everything, be it serious or silly, high brow endeavors to dive bars, other cultures, new adventures - ... with that 2nd per to explore and build history with. Coffee, yes this is important!! You should enjoy it or be tolerant of my passion for it.. ;) Try CafeNoir4me - go ahead search for it, on the net, OK now you know more about me, and what I like, where I am coming from truly, who ya too, OK get it?? Let me know!!!! [COLOR red] If your heart can take it be in touch..[/COLOR]

My Ideal Person I am looking to find that someone that can melt the barriers and accept the real you. Genuinely interested in you for who you are and not try to make you who they want you to be. A best friend and a lover. Someone who will be there through the best and the worst times. Someone who understands commitment and responsibility. Someone who understands personal freedom, that takes time for self if need be. While I definitely enjoy the city life and cultural activities, my authentic self is most comfortable in nature. I'm a "You and me, by a river flowing, sweet kisses, as the sun goes down", "light kisses in the warm rain" kind of guy, did I mention kissing lately? I also think humor is a key ingredient in moving through life. If you can make me laugh, you can pretty much own me. What I've learned from my past relationships: Let's start with obvious things like mutual respect, honesty, kindness - we both better have learned these attributes well by now,, It helps to have diversity yet to have compatible styles in certain areas, we will not grow apart but together, basically to be on the same page. I like ambition tempered with the knowledge of what's really important at the end of the day. I've found that knowing what you do not want, can be as important as knowing what you do, - I've learned that once you have found love, it needs to be protected and cared for and nutured in order to thrive. Someone communicative and who enjoys laughter, daily I have found though, once finding someone who may be the right person , we have a tendency to let them go, (not me career path is not an excuse. Really what I have learned is to be a good conversationalist and to be a good listener be true to your word, know the true meaning of integrity and love unconditionally. You need communication to make it work and lots of kissing I am willing are you? Jeffrey

PS Please have a picture online or available to send. ( Or are you in a witness relocation program??? Then that I understand.. Speaking from experience here.. Uh OH!! re.. them not me..

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Chantral Chamberland, Sting, Paula Cole, Brian McNight,
Enigma, Sade,

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
Under a waterfall

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Spanking, Role Playing, More: just ask..

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Creativity/Kinkiness level, A little of each

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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