I am a former Ford model, now 49 (look 39); full-figured, natural redhead, 5'8" tall. Seeking kind, considerate, articulate, fun (and funny) friend for chats, friendship, discreet relationship. Am available only on weekdays during the day; lunches would be good. I'm looking for a friend-with-benefits: I want someone whose company I can enjoy both in and out of the bedroom. Please be both sincere and honest. I ask for the investment of a lunch, nothing more, to see if we click. (NB: I'm back as FormerFord01 after a brief absence; I was previously FormerFord.)

My Ideal Person A decent, honest friend -- who can appreciate the value of being a friend-with-benefits. Someone who can be discreet and straightforward. Looking for a long-term relationship; i.e. one that won't affect my primary relationship with my significant other, but might enhance my sexual experiences. Someone who will treat me with respect, and value any relationship we might cultivate. Please don't contact me if you're looking for a one-night (or rather, one-day) stand, or if you're simply seeking to notch your bedpost; I'm interested only in individuals looking to cultivate a sincere friendship.