[B][COLOR royalblue] We are a couple 47 and 40, attractive and average size, seeking a girl for a long term relationship, maybe s in time. We are stable and easy to get along with. We are experienced and know what we want. We are not looking to experiment. We get along great. Never fuss or fight. We don't complain and bicker all the time. If we have a problem we talk about it. We are very stable. We have been together since August 2008 and plan to stay together. Looking for someone local or someone who can move here. You can't ever get to a long term relationship without going through short term. Meeting for dinner is a good start. Meeting a play friend is ok for now but were not looking for short term sex hook-up's. We are looking for a decent average girl who is ready to settle down. No "party girls". We drink a little, very occasionally. We mostly like the simple things, watching a movie at home, taking a walk, lay out in the pool, lot's of play time of course, a couple of nice vacations each year, going out to eat, comedy shows, bowling, we go out to a club dance and a drag show occasionally. [/COLOR][/B]

My Ideal Person

Attractive, stable couple seeking girl for long term poly relationship, maybe children.

My Gf is a terrific girl, very friendly, kind hearted, open, caring, sexy and fun. I would love to find another girl a lot like her. We have a great relationship. She loves girls, whether straight, Bi, Bi curious or gay. He has had some Bi experiences in the past but prefers to stick with girls in the future. We are both Bi as far as sex goes but we both bond with girls and prefer girls for friends. We are looking to get to know someone for friends, fun, dating, relationship or whatever it becomes. We share each other completely and we are game for about anything whether it's hanging out at home, going out, travel or anything else. We are wanting something much more than a short term hook-up.

He has been in a two "light poly" relationships in the past when he was 16-19 years old with two straight girls and again in his 30's with two Bi girls, a 10 year relationship and an 11 year monogamous marriage. He divorced in early 2007.

She was with her x husband since she was 19. He died from cancer in early 2007. They had divorced a few months before they found out he was dying of cancer. She moved back in with him to help take care of him. He died 6 months later. He was abusive, cheated and would not have anything to do with her bringing another girl into the relationship, so she cheated with other girls. After we had been together about 6 months she told me she had a secret. She told me she was Bi and was interested in bringing another girl into the relationship. We have been together since August 2008.

We are both very non judgmental, we like all races. We are very honest with each other. We don't cheat or hide things from each other. I just don't do things to start with that I know I will have to lie about later, simple. Sexually, we like about anything near normal and are always open to trying new things. Both like anal occasionall. Both like toys. She likes being restrained.

He has never had kids. She has a boy almost 13 and a girl almost 16 at home. Great kids!! She is a very good mother. The girl hopes to be on her own after high school in a couple of years. I think she should stay home and stay in school. You know the story. We lost a baby in Oct 2009. We are trying again. We both want children. We are fine with having another girl around the kids and possibly having children with a new partner in the future. We don't plan to hide our poly relationship. Another girl I had previously dated some stays a few days or a week or two at a time with us occasionally. Just as friends. She's old fashioned and not into the poly thing. My Gf and her get along really well. Her and the kids get along well to and have become friends. The past girlfriend is striaght, so far. Lol. We're not involved sexually with her and she's not someone we are considering for a relationship. She tells us she hopes we meet a girl who is right for us. It's been a bit like a trial run for us having another girl around the house 24/7. My girlfriend does tease her at every opportunity, all in fun. Last time she was here my Gf straddled her on the couch and proceeded to fart on her. Lol. No, they weren't drunk or high. She pushed her off in the floor and explained how "paybacks a bitch". Lol. So if you come visit this is what you have to look forward to. Lol.