WARNING: to Sydney University and all other institutions or individuals using this or any Adult Friend Finder site or its associated sites for projects - You do not have permission from me to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal action. I am "Retired Military/Self-Employed", with an average "Minimum" income, depending on how much I choose to work of $50,000.00+ a year! I own my 3 cars, I own a 4 bedroom house that I share with "like minded" adults, in order to keep down expenses..{Serious Smile}! I work with/in "Computers", running a small business out of my home..(Serious Look)..and do some "Security Work/Bounty Hunting" on the side! I am part Cherokee & Creek Indian with the rest a "mixture" of Scott, Irish, Welsh and English/Saxon, my "Celtic" & "Indian" heritages are important parts of my life & spirituality..(Serious Look)! I like” the outdoors, music & dancing, talking & good food, watching movies at the theater or at home on my 65” High Def/Wide Screen TV..(Grin)! I also enjoy reading & playing video games on my computer, I guess I still have some of the "Boy " in me..(Teasing Smile)! Being something of a "Romantic" at heart I am into, making love in a thunderstorm, moonlight walks along a beach and cuddling beside a fire with good music, good wine/beer and some special snacks..{Wicked Little Smile}! I believe in "living & enjoying" life, not just existing..(Serious Look).., I am passionate & intense, not afraid to say or show how I feel, what I want & need or the way I like things to be..(Very Serious Look)! I am a very "physically affectionate" person, I enjoy having my hands on a woman that I like and having her hands on me..(Serious Smile).., I am a "feedback" person that gets great "pleasure & satisfaction" from the enjoyment and pleasure of the woman that I am with..(Serious Look)! I have a "Wicked"..(Teasing Grin).. sense of humor and I love to laugh, I am not so "full of myself" that I can't laugh when I do something ridiculous or admit it and apologize when I make a mistake..(Very Serious Look)! One thing I find almost an "oxymoron" in online profiles and people getting to know each other over the "Net" is that many "women" have profiles on websites like this, they are obviously looking for a "connection", that they are unable or unwilling to find in their local community, yet many times they will not respond to or initiate contact with a "potential" friend/lover who’s profile "touches" them in some way because he is "too far away" from their home and because "long distance relationships" are by definition hard & difficult..(Incredulous Look)? Any "online" relationship starts out as "long distance" by it’s very nature, even if you live on the same street as the person you contact..(Very Serious Look)! I believe that when/if there is a “True Connection” between people, that the "bond" between them will not be denied, that time and distance are irrelevant, that "what is meant to be, will be"..(Very Serious Look)! I realize this is a "romantic & old fashioned" way of feeling/thinking, however it is also a part of my nature..(Simple Look)! If I am interested in you then I will “usually” just flirt rather than message you directly the first time..(Serious Look)! I do realize that many women here feel that a flirt is not displaying enough "interest", however I feel that as a "Gentleman", it is a much better "icebreaker" than a direct message because I know how many rude, crude, nasty and "unwelcome" messages any reasonably attractive woman gets on this site daily..(Wry Look)! My grandpa "taught" me at a young age that I should "treat” any woman I meet like a “Lady", until if and/or when she shows me she wants to be treated like a "Woman"..(Wicked Little Grin)..and then afterwards to always "show her the respect & courtesy", that is she is“due for trusting/honoring me enough to open herself and/or share a part of herself with me..(Serious Tender Look)! Another thing, "standard members" can contact me and view my complete "profile & pictures" here on AFF for free, my pictures are recent enough to show my“"actual" appearance and will be updated should anything about me change drastically..(Wry Look)! What I say here is a "basic" assessment of my“"feelings/thoughts" and what I am looking for in a woman to spend time with, enough I hope to "get an idea/pique some interest" but not too much to "wade" through”..(Teasing Grin)! I have been "plain and blunt", so there should be little" reason or excuse for misunderstandings/confusion, I believe that "life" is too short to deal with “bull****..(Very Serious Look)! I have seen many profiles from women here, stating that they are looking for "N.S.A." sexual relationships and they make me wonder a little about "whom is fooling whom"..(Kind Teasing Look).., for one thing that I have found to be a "Truth" in this life, is that there is no such thing as a "No Strings Attached"..(Wry Look).., physical/sexual relationship with a woman..(Deadly Serious Look)! The "ties/bonds" might be loose and/or flexible..(Wry Smile).., they might never be acknowledged or spoken of "in words", but they are always "present", none the less..(Very Serious Look)! It is a woman's nature to form a "Bond" of some kind/type with the man that she is "intimate" with by choice..(Serious Tender Look)..and unless she has been hurt so many times that she has hardened her heart..(Sad & Weary Look)..or she is just trying to "Pander" to what seems to be an almost universal Male fear of "Caring, Love or Commitment"..(Wry Look).., there is no "Real" way to sidestep or get around what is as much a part of her nature as "breathing"..(Deadly Serious Look)! If what you see in my pictures and read in my feelings/words "touch" you and/or "evoke" a desire/need to "know" me better, then I would be "honored" by a flirt, message or a reply to my message, however I have "many" demands on my time and attention and I will not "chase" a woman all over the internet..(Serious Look).., I do not have several hours each day to devote to IM's, Emails, etc; I will reply to any message sent to me, even though it might take me a couple of days and as/or if things progress as they should and we move to "closer"..(Teasing Smile)..forms of communication, you will have more time with me and you will no reason to doubt my "Interest" in you..(Very Serious Look)! I am an "Honest, Strong Willed, Outspoken &“Open Minded" individualist..(Very Serious Look)! I am not motivated or controlled by "Fear", like so many others seem to be in this day and age, nor am I a "Control Freak"..(Serious Look)! I do however have "Very Deep & Powerful Feelings Of Caring & Responsibility", that compel my desire/need to protect those I consider a "part of my life/family", either by blood or by desire..(Extremely Serious Look)! I will not tolerate“"Liars, Head Games & Players, Users & Abusers", so if you are one of those types of people, I would advise you to steer clear of me..(Very Serious Look)! Understand, that I am not "Desperate" nor am I a "Fool"..(Serious Look)! Please do not "insult my intelligence" by flirting or messaging me if you are a "Beautiful" young girl from this or any other country, pretending an "interest" in me, that "truly" want/are interested in older men are rare/special, they are the "exception" not the rule and I will make you prove to me that you are "Real" before I invest any time or effort in "knowing" you better, or by asking me, before we have looked into each others eyes and I know that you are a "real person", regardless of your life situation or circumstances to "send you money" for any reason..(Deadly Serious Look)!!!

My Ideal Person I am {Not} a Drug Addict,I {Am} Disease Free and I Require The Same From You In Return..(Very Serious look)! I am looking for fun, pleasure,A Companion!!! I am not looking for just a Cyber Thing, I want to get to know each other, eventually to meet/become friends and be "Intimate" with each other, if the Chemistry is right..(Very Serious Look)! I prefer a Well Built woman and have a definite fondness for Big Boobs, I was bottle fed as a baby, what can I say..(Teasing Grin)? For me True Beauty Or Sexy comes from the inside and what is big or small is Relative to the type & proportions of each persons body! Hell, no matter how Beautiful or Handsome you are, that Fades with time and if you have not found someone that likes or loves you, for who/what you are in your heart & Spirit, then you will end up Old and Alone, further if you have Lived Life you will have the Scars, Lines & Marks to prove it and they should be as Respected & Accepted as the Battle Scars of a Warrior..(Serious Smile)!

I have no problem/issue with a woman having Dependants, two or four legged..(Teasing Look).., I have 3 of each myself but only the four legged ones still live with me..(Smile)! Should we chose to spend time with each other, her "Family" will have the same Consideration/Respect as my "Own"..(Very Serious Look)! I am not looking for just a pretty face or figure! If you truly wish to share my life in a "Real Relationship", you must have A Strong Will: that enables you to stand by me, even through the hard/bad times! You must have Heart: so that your love can strengthen/support me and that enables you to Trust Me and be Certain of your place in my Heart & Life! You must have Fire: that compels my Respect for you as a person and feeds your Passions & Desires! You must have A Kind, Giving & Gentle Spirit: that enables your "Compassion & Understanding" for others..(Very Serious Look)! I fully Realize that I ask for and require Much, in someone that shares my life & heart, but you will find and come to understand that I also Give Much in return..(Very Serious Look)! A serious "Long Term" relationship is Definite possibility, if the Right Lady comes along..{Tender Smile}!

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Too many to list here..(Wry Look)!!!

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
Dishes <br><br>
I wrote this story many years ago in response to a dare and
I have lived it several times..(Fond Smile)... <br><br>
Imagine being home one weekend, just you and your S/O, the
kids are at an "in-laws" or whatever and there
is no chance of them disturbing you. Your man is sitting
in his chair watching the "Boob Tube"..(Sound
Familiar, In Actuality He Has Been Watching You Doing The
Dishes And Realizing Just How Much You Do To Make His Life
Easier And How Much He Appreciates You)! <br><br>
Suddenly he is behind you, saying let me help you honey,
with is arms around you and his body pressing up against
you, he slides his hands into the hot soapy water and starts
to help you wash the dish you were working on..(You Blush
As You Become Aware of His Nearness And The Feel Of His Hands
Touching Yours As The Dish Is Washed). The dish slides back
into the water as his hot slippery hands stroke your fingers
and palms, sending an electric tingle throughout your
body. Ever so slowly his his strong hands move up your wrists
to your arms..(Instinctively Your Body Arches And Tries
To Become A Part of Him). The feel of his body against yours
and the pressure of his fingers on your skin quickens your
breath and your heart begins to beat faster. His hands begin
moving up your arms and around to your shoulders and he starts
to massage your shoulders and neck. The gentle but insistent
pressure of his fingers kneading your muscles feels like
heaven and you feel the pressures and tensions of the day
start to fade..(A Small Sigh Escapes You, As Your Body Relaxes).
As his hands are rubbing your shoulders, they start to sink
to sink slowly further down your back..(Your Body Arches
Even Further, Grinding Your Ass Against Him And You Feel
Him Twitch In Response To The Pressure of Your Firm Ass).
You feel his hands slide around your body and start to stroke
your belly..(Causing The Heat To Start Rising Inside You).
As his hands start moving upward, tickling and teasing..(You
Think For A Moment of The Open Windows, The Wetness of His
hands And Start To Stop This)..but the feelings are starting
to come stronger now, as his hands reach the curve of your
breasts..(Your Nipples Stiffen In Response). When you
feel his lips on your neck and shoulders, the words stick
in your throat..(A Small Moan Escapes Your Lips). <br><br>
His hands then cup the fullness of your breasts and the feel
of his warm wet hands alternating with the coolness of your
wet shirt causes your nipples to stiffen all the way, almost
to the point of being painful..(You Feel The Wetness Start
To Flow In Your Secret Places As Your Nipples Ache To Be Touched).
Gently his fingers find your nipples and you groan as electric
tingles course through your belly. The feel of his hands
stroking and playing with your nipples and the feel of his
lips on your neck and ears, make you grab his hands and grind
your ass against him harder and harder..(You Feel The Fullness
Of Him Start To Stiffen In Response And A Small Groan Escapes
From His Lips Past Your Ear). He then releases you and turns
you around..(Looking In To His Eyes You See The Love And
Lust Burning There). Instinctively a thrill of delight,
power, and a little fear passes through you. You tremble
as you feel his hands start to unbutton your shirt and your
eyes half close from the feel of his hands on your naked flesh.
As your shirt slowly slides away, you feel his lips on your
forehead and then brushing your closed eyes..(Gently,
Teasingly, Caressing Your Skin). His Lips work their way
slowly down your cheeks to your waiting lips. As his lips
touch yours, his arms come around you and "hold you
tight".. (You Feel Safe And Protected, This Increases
Your Desire For Him). You feel his hardness against your
belly as your tongues begin their gentle exploration..(The
Wetness Inside You Increases And You Feel The Dampness
Of Your Panties). <br><br>
Then you feel his lips and tongue start moving slowly down
your neck to your shoulders and across the upper swell of
your breasts, slowly circling each one, almost but not
quite brushing the nipple. Again the anticipation causes
your nipples to ache..(You Moan Softly "Please".).
Hmmmm, he says..(As He Teases You Unmercifully). Kiss
them..(You Say).., you feel his lips and tongue cover your
nipple and you groan in pleasure as he goes back and forth
between them, alternating from gently sucking them, to
nibbling gently with his teeth, to sucking hard on them
and flicking his tongue over the tips. An electric current
seems to run between your breasts and clit as it enlarges
& stiffens from the attention you are getting and you
feel your labia "Swell & Thicken" with
desire. Slowly his lips and tongue work their way down your
belly.. (You Feel Your Knees Start To Grow Weak As He gets
Lower And Closer). You "start" as his lips brush
the top of your pants, gently while he is teasing your belly
button with his tongue, he loosens your pants and they slide
down your legs. You feel the wetness trickle down your thighs
as he lowers your panties. He then looks up and..(From His
Knees)..tells you that he loves you. You feel your knees
weaken further and you become a little light headed from
the rush of emotions and the physical pleasure that you
are feeling. Sensing this he gently eases your feet from
the tangle of your pants and pulls you down beside him. You
look deeply into each others eyes..(Seeing the Love, Caring
And Commitment There)..and both are content. <br><br>
You then tell him that you love him and want to please him.
You kiss him full on the lips and your "passion"
surprises him for a moment. You take that opportunity to
remove his shirt and gently start kissing his neck and chest,
slowly teasing his nipples and ever so slowly working your
way further down, as you reach his belly button you ask him
to stand and as you loosen his pants you feel his hardness
straining for release. As his pants fall and you see the
evidence of his desire, the urge to please him is almost
more than you can take. You take him in your hands and feel
the throbbing of it..(He Gasps, As You Touch Him).., then
you gently run your hands over the length of him, back and
forth, up and down..(Faster He Sighs). You look up at him
with a "twinkle" in your eyes and ask him what
he would like, "you know"..(He Says Softly)..,
you tell him that he must say it, "Suck Me"..(He
Moans). Gently you kiss the head of him and run your tongue
around it..(His Knees Buckle For Moment And He Has To Use
The Sink For Support). Slowly you ease the head into your
mouth and caress it with your tongue..(You Feel Him Tremble
From The Pleasure Of It). A "sense" of power
and control momentarily overcomes you, but it fades as
your desire to please him increases. You start taking "more
of him", feeling him sliding deeper and deeper into
your throat..(Almost Gagging With Your Need To Taste All
Of Him). You start moving faster and sucking harder, as
you gaze upward and see the look of "intense"
pleasure and need on his face. <br><br>
Suddenly, his eyes open and he gently touches your face,
you stop to look wonderingly up at him, together he says,
I want to please you too. He then lowers himself beside you
and gently lays you backwards. He starts lightly kissing
your mouth, neck and ears, while working his way downward,
stopping a little here and there. You begin to really tremble
as you feel him moving down your belly and then kissing lightly
upon your thighs..(Your Legs Spread Almost Of Their Own
Accord, As He Teases You). Your eyes close and your body
tenses as you feel his "hot breath" tickle you.
You gasp as you feel the "warm wetness" of his
tongue part your labia..(Swollen & Tender With Need)..and
your whole body convulses as you feel his tongue probing
and flickering inside of you, teasing your secret places.
Slowly his tongue then works it's way upward..(The
Teasing Feel of It, Making You Want To Scream)! You grab
his head and moan "Eat Me Baby", please "Lick
My Clit", an electric shock runs through the center
of your being as his tongue finally finds your "love
button"..(Wicked Little Grin)! Harder baby, you
groan, "Do it". You feel the power of your "pleasure"
growing faster and stronger, thee feel of it spreading
from you belly to your whole body, it feels like every nerve
is on fire and screaming for release..(Your Whole Body
Flushes And Your Breath Comes In Gasps, As Every Muscle
In Your Body Contracts). Yess, Yess, you cry out as his tongue
finds "just the right spot"..(A Guttural Scream
Escapes You And You Almost Black Out From the Intensity
And Depth of The "Feelings", as you Cumm For
Him). <br><br>
He then raises up and gently lowers himself into you..(This
Is Made Easy By The Wetness From Your Orgasm). You moan as
you feel him spreading and filling you, touching every
secret place inside. You feel and hear him groan as your
muscles contract around and milk the length of him. He begins
moving faster and harder as the "feel of you gets him.
"I Love You", he moans as you feel him thrust
deeper and deeper inside you. You feel the "warmth"
in your belly rising again..(You Cant Believe How Fast)..and
you encourage your lover to greater efforts by saying "Do
it Baby", I want to feel you "cumm" inside
me. You see the sweat streaming down his body from the effort
of holding himself above you..(So As Not To Make You Feel
Trapped Or Uncomfortable)! You feel his whole body tense
and you hear him almost "scream", as you feel
him spurt deep inside you. The "hot scalding"
feel of it triggers your own "Orgasm" yet again,
you feel him convulse from the "feel" of you,
as your muscles contract/spasm around him and you scream
"I Love You". You both are lost for a few moments
from "power" of the feelings you have experienced.
Your lover then lowers himself beside you, cradles you
in his arms, tells you how beautiful you are and how much
he loves you. He holds you close, like he will never let you
go and you feel "Content" in his arms! <br><br>
The way it should be..(Tender Smile)... <br><br>
Jim

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
The beach, A moving vehicle (i.e. car), An airplane, A movie theatre, A remote wilderness spot, Under a waterfall, A swimming pool or hot tub, A store dressing room

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Light Bondage, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Leather, Massage

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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