who are you...the age old question, I'm divorced, currently single 35 year old man looking for the occasional companion. Someone that can carry a conversation in and out of the bedroom, I mean sure hi lets fuck is fun too but honestly flirting and foreplay (both physical and mental) makes the end result that much better doesn't it? I'm not looking for "the one" because lets face it, this is a site to find sex, that's not to say that I would turn away from something else if it happened but what are the odds? I am employed, have a vehicle and own my own house, I know that sounds like a weird thing to put in here but in talking with some of the women on here it seems like it may be more rare then I would have thought. I cant believe how many 25-35 year old men live with their parents, have no job, no car at least according to the people I have been talking too lol. I enjoy long walks on the beach and moonlight dinners, ah that's bullshit but it sounded funny in my head. I do enjoy someone that can excite my mind as well as my body, someone who can turn me on just with a simple text, email or call. I like to joke around and enjoy hanging out with friends or just chilling with a movie and cuddling on the couch. So if you read or see something that piques your interest please feel free to email me or wink etc. :)

My Ideal Person hmm, my "perfect" person...

in the grand scheme of things I am not convinced that exists so for now I'll just say someone the enjoys my company and vice versa.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
right now Id say Jimi Hendrix, Led Zepplin, Tool, System
of a Down

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
You tell me you are going to go get more comfortable, I don’t
think too much about it because I assume you just mean put
your flannel pj’s on, Several minutes later I catch you
in the corner of my eye, you aren’t wearing flannel pj’s,
instead you have on something new, something silky and
sheen, I can’t keep my eyes off you. You make your way to me,
enjoying my eyes on you, “wow, is that new” I ask, you nod.
As you approach me I move to stand up but you push me back down
in my chair and quickly sit in my lap, we begin kissing each
other. I try to touch you, my hands anxious to feel the silky
lingerie against your body but you intercept my hands and
hold them at my side. <br><br>
You stand up and take my hand leading me down the hall to the
bedroom. The room dimly lit by candle light, the sweet smell
of your body still clinging to me. You direct me to the bed
and push me down on my back and straddle me, my mind is racing
imagining what you have in store for me. We begin to kiss
passionately, I don’t even notice your hands make their
way to the bindings you had hidden under the pillows and
before I know what’s happening you have my hands tied to
the headboard. When I realize what happened I ask you what
you are doing, you don’t say a word, just keep kissing me,
my concerns fade quickly. <br><br>
Your mouth now kissing down my neck and across my chest,
I wince as you firmly bite my nipple, but you know I like it.
I feel your hot breath and your mouth works it’s way down
over my stomach and to my waistline, you can see how excited
I am now. I can feel my pulse quickening in anticipation
of what I’m sure is next. I try to relax to enjoy the moment
as you slowly pull my underwear down one leg, then slowly
down the other. Now as I lay there naked in the candle light
it seems like forever since I have felt your touch, I tilt
my head to look up and you are standing at the foot of the bed,
just looking at me. I ask you if everything is ok, but again,
you don’t answer, just then I realize that you have also
tied my ankles while you had me distracted. Now I am getting
a little nervous, did I do something wrong, are you going
to leave me here like some bad sitcom? <br><br>
My unease only escalates are you leave the room, “where
are you going?” I ask, and again I get no response. “You’re
not going to leave me here are you?”, “I’m sorry, what did
I do?”. I struggle against the ropes but they are tied tighter
then I realized, it’s obvious that I am trapped here until
you want to let me go. <br><br>
Just then you walk back in the room holding something in
your hand, I struggle to see what it is but you have your back
to me now. “What are you doing, what’s that?” , my questions
are met with silence. It doesn’t take long for me to figure
out what you have in your hand, its another candle, now lit.
Phew I think, she just went to get another candle, no problem,
I forget I am tied up and start getting excited again. You
put the candle on the table next to the bed and lean over to
kiss me, you bit my lip a little, hmm somebody likes it a little
rough eh? <br><br>
Seeing you sitting next to me in your lingerie, my body exposed,
tied to the bed has gotten me very worked up and I can think
of nothing else but the pleasure that I am sure is to come.
Just then you reach over to the candle you placed on the nightstand
and pick up it, you bring the candle over and hold it above
my chest, watching the flame, almost mesmerized by it.
Then you slowly start to tip the candle over letting the
hot wax spill out onto my chest, “OW! That hurts”, but you
continue to ignore me. As the wax cools it seems to sooth
the heat and starts to feel better, good even, sensing my
smile you again tilt the candle and this time a hot splash
of wax lands on my nipple. It is hot but I bite my tongue to
keep from howling and instead let out a low moan as the wax
begins to cool I feel flush from the adrenaline, and excitement.
<br><br>
You begin to slowly work your way down over my chest and stomach
leaving a trail of cooling wax in your path, each time my
body recoils from the wax and quickly returns for more….
<br><br>
The rest I’ll leave up to YOUR imagination

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Candle Wax, Role Playing, Voyeurism, Blindfolds

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
I prefer real women

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I have cybersex quite often.

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