There are lots of fish in the ocean. I am a 6'3 154# green eyes, I had longer brown hair, but cut it last summer, but it is growing back in :) I take pride in a taut body physique. While I don't consider myself a "studmuffin" by any means, I have been told that I am very easy on the eyes. I work crazy hours as a Culinary Fine Dinning Chef, and don't get to date people often, and loathe the bar scene, but enjoy wine, and a quiet intimate setting at an eatery where we can chat and not have to shout over 100Db just to say "what?" a hundred times a night to get aquainted. I enjoy tropical reef aquariums, Jetskis, hanging out, watching movies, Patio BBQ's, Enjoying a good wine/ drinks and sharing hobbies and activities with conversations that can lead to close physical relationships, Or simply no strings attached-good friends are always a plus. I listen to House, Techno/trance music and like the Goth/industrial stuff, and the Dance club scene, but also down tempo lounge, jazz, and classical music. I can also be quite the homebody and simply relax and chill-out on a boat or the couch all day. I try to not let life drag me down, and have a carefree (yet responsible) spirit that keeps me and those around me laughing as often as possible. I am a Leo, and I am a night owl. I recently got out of long term relationship because I have a strong sexdrive and need a woman(or 2.... or M/F couple) that can keep up. I value honesty and straightforwardness very much. I am into attractive active and thin ladies and couples who are "normal". Please no "ON-LINE" or otherwise game players. I am a semi professional snowboarder in the winter, and the extent of my "dork" is to the fact I fly Radio Control Planes/Helicopters and I race Jetskis in the IJSBA protour. I'm not a homo-phobe, nor am I BI. I prefer to use the term "Heteroflexable" as I have no aversions to the male body or touching or being touched by another guy. Some men freek-out at just the sight of a naked guy's junk. I'm sarcastic as hell frozen over, and occasionally brutally honest. I tend to speak my mind. This gets me "in trouble" on occasion, but have been told it is also refreshing as some people need to hear things that no one else will tell them or say about a situation or topic. I love Winter as mentioned, I Snowboard. I also love my big warm bed that is comfy with company when it is cold out, or a night in watching movies after work. I'm a big and I goof around a lot and am constantly there with a smile or quick joke.I have some BDSM experience, and do enjoy the lighter side of it. This is fairly cut and dry, but there is lots of wiggle room. Chances are if you give chatting a chance, ya just might like me ;)

My Ideal Person Let's be honest here... Looks DO indeed matter. If I can't look at you (or vice versa) and be visualy attracted, chances are unless you have a stellar profile, or fit into a similar personal interest, we get passed over. I'm not picky with the exceptions of the following: you are perfect provided, you are d/d free, less than 160#, around 5'2-6'2 tall, In decent shape, preferably SAFELY promiscious in general, but likes to be a real slut at times with trusted friends or a small group. You should be able to and comfortable enough to turn yourself on under your clothes and the sheets just for the shear pleasure of self enjoyment. I don't much care for cigarette smoke so it's an issue if you are in a smoking household that reekes of nico-stench. I used to be a smoker, so LIGHT or occasional smokers are OK. I'm not the jealous type. Partners in relationships need to have room. A close physical relationship with a small group of select friends, a couple, or "safe" regular fling on the side is ok. No Strings attached casual encounters considered, but potential long term monogamy is always wanted and discussed with the right person. You should like lingere and wearing heels, skirts and fetish wear. Being a "girly" girl and also able to switch dominance roles. Professional attitude, youthfully mature or into lipstick lesbian look a plus. Latex fetish, or curiosity of it a plus. HIGH HEELS ARE A MUST!

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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