things about computer women i have noticed if i talked to 100 women tonite: 65 women i would never hear from again no matter if chat was great, fanastic, inspiring, soso. 10 women would be fake profiles with fake pictures and most likely guys to begin with. 10 women would give me their phone and when i call they get freaked out and wonder why i call at all. 5 women would tell me what a great guy i am, but their ex-b/f who cheated on them or hit them, one who they hated and despised and cursed is back in the picture. 10 women bother to meet me in person. 5 women look nothing at all like their pictures, maybe forgetting to mention the additional 150lbs since last picture taken or the picture was taken back 22years ago. 3 women have no interest in me in person, which is kewl and i respect that... at least THEY tried. 1 woman falls in love with me and wants to marry me the next day (HUGE red flag!!). and finally 1 woman out of 100, i like and she likes me. but, she is moving to florida in 2months. this is my experience with online women. but i keep being told, there are good women out there. so i dont give up. maybe i should talk to 200 women a night.

My Ideal Person i am not filling this profile out for the throngs of women who have a need to showcase their life with blogs, skimpy scantily clad model pictures, the ambition and aspiration to have countless numbers of displayed 'friends' for a much needed self-ego booster to show others just how weak and alone on the inside they really are. if you have come this far, keep reading. i am a man. not unlike many, but yet different than many. the top 3 aspects about me that my friends would say: i'm highly communicative and sharing. i'm generous and determined. and finally, i'm aggressive and bold. if you can add 2+2, you will summarize what i'm capable of with a friend. some women appreciate such attributes in a man. some do not. if you have come this far, keep reading. i like friends who have a life away from the keyboard. women who have social skills greater than cyber skills. there is a whole world out there to explore, to dwelve into, to question, to pioneer, to grow fond of. live your life infront of a computer screen to gain your friends and talks, bypassing hanging out with friends and doing entertaining fun events, then move along to the next profile. i enjoy strong willed women who can stand on two feet, who take chances, who do not come across as debilitatingly weak or timid or shy when initially getting to know on phone or computer. "friends" to me are those i meet in person and get to know. if you have come this far, keep reading. go and choose. reply back or move on. there are more fish in the sea for me. i'm that secure and strong willed to know that. are you?

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