Yes, selfish and self-centered! Want what I want and if you don't want to give it to me then keep looking! If I can't have what I want you not getting what you want, it is that simple! So, where you want to jump in? Right here or you think if you wait it will change? Not going to change;) I tend to express myself in dramatic, creative and assertive ways. I enjoy the warmth of the Sun, so I love the beach. I have very high energy, I am courageous and honest with a level of self confidence that border-lines on self-indulgent. I expect to be the center of attention and get my way. My integrity and natural ability to lead can get in the way but my humility and compassion makes up for all that. If you are the kind of man that can flow with this kind of woman than I welcome our attention but if you are the kind of man that lives his life trying to make a woman what he wants then let us agree now to disagree.

My Ideal Person I seek a Black man (red bone) who can accept a woman with emotions that are keenly felt, direct(out spoken and speaks her mind) and spontaneous. A woman who is strong, independent with great physical daring. You must be a match for a lifetime mate.