In the summer I love to get on the cycle and go. Blow off steam. I like to plan my trips and its easier when I have a destination in mind. Could some one help me with a destination? My radius is about 150 miles but I travel to the very south subs from time to time (Manteno/Peotone/Kankakee). St.Louis is very doable too.I love to give oral and explore not just a cum and go. Not interested in drama just a good time that could be repeated when the need for some good oral and hands are needed.I have gotten into a rut and I'm wanting to break out of it but its complicated and I have people that depend on me. Was hoping to meet someone that is in a similar situation for some occassional mutual support. It could be long term but not full-time because like I said I have people that depend on me. As far as looks I'm just an average guy not ugly not drop dead gorgeous. Don't be turned off by my age I'm fairly well maintained and look younger than my age...so I won't remind you of your father...unless you want me too (thats sic:)

My Ideal Person I'm not looking for a model(won't turn any down either) I really have no preconcieved image but its has to be someone that can communicate their thoughts and feelings. Someone that gets excited thinking about the next e-mail or meeting and disappointed if they don't get one. Someone that is real like me.BBW's don't fear me I don't judge that way,a nice personality makes up for a lot of things.I'm just tired of all the fakes out there...would like to do more than send pictures and flirt.A secret relationship that is exciting but discreet.Someone that can be able to chat then after a while meet knowing that time can be fleeting but can appreciate those stolen hours. Maybe we will talk or sometimes it might be physical it depends on what is going on for both of us at the time and what our needs are.We are taught as children to stay out of water with a strong current because we could drown if we got swept up in the rushing water and pulled under. What they don’t tell us is that life is the same way and we get caught in the rushing current of life and we get swept downstream and we will drown emotionally if we are not careful. We get caught up in getting the bills paid, running kids to events, overtime at work, chores at home, this weeks emergency, trying to get sleep, illness and it goes on and on and suddenly you wake up and its 10, 15 or 20 years later. You wonder where did the time go, where did my life go? It wasn’t wasted because you invested it with your family and a successful career yet something is missing. During the time you were being swept downstream your lover became your partner and sometimes your rival or adversary and now you have more of business relationship rather than what brought you together. So instead of breaking up the “business” you pursue your lost years trying to recapture the things you did before you got swept away by the rushing current of life, the things that made life fun and valuable to you. These were things that were free they didn’t depend on the type of car you have, how big of home you owned, do you have a boat, motorcycle, etc (the things that enslave us to our jobs). We think about how off course we got, a little at first, then more and more and we realize that we wouldn’t be able to recognize ourselves now if we looked at ourselves with our youthful eyes. We think back and remember the “good times” and how we thought they wouldn’t end and how we took them for granted or let someone tell us its time to grow up. We realize at that point we compromised ourselves and sold out…So now what? We either keep doing things the same way (and quietly die inside) or we make a change a change that will allow us to breathe again and reawaken those passions and feelings that have been asleep for way too long. But life remains complicated and we can’t just drop our current commitments so we have to be discreet but nothing is better than a secret passion that can be shared by two people with a “no strings attached” relationship. Where you can come and go out of each others life sharing adventures that you have had since the last meeting. Besides fulltime relationships quickly become dull and routine and monogamy has a funny way of killing relationships.