It isn't just the wine, or the music, or hike in the park, or stopping at a hole-in-the-wall restaurant in a small town during a day-drive in the country - though that's all part of it. It's the you and the me, and the companionship, and the "You can be yourself with me." The relaxed conversation, the "I have your back", the "We worked hard this week, let's go play today" togetherness we can share with each other. And the serenity we give each other. Yes, that's the ticket. I do have certain likes (and dislikes), but I'm a fairly easy-going guy. I do like to go out on the town at times, but I also like to relax at home. Whatever the mood is. I'm the kind of guy who enjoys a visit to a planetarium, but I'm also the kind of guy who likes an evening at the bar - maybe we can get in some pool. I'm not like some big dance fan - but I will certainly dance with *you*. I do like a woman who's typically a lady in public, as I'm typically a gentleman - but in those intimate times with each other, we cast these public personas aside and give free reign to our carnal natures, casting our inhibitions to the wind - at times, to the wind quite literally because with you and me our playground is absolutely not confined to a bedroom. I'm looking for a lover, not a friend, but a companion who is more. And that serenity I mentioned? This is our mutual gift.

My Ideal Person An easy-going woman. A woman with a gentle soul. Likes to spend time with her man doing fun things together. Low drama, and the only games you like to play are games of fun or teasing, not "head games." Open-minded, imaginative, and enjoys some good "play time," both out and about as well as with the physical intimacy that two special friends share. (A lady in public, but uninhibited privately in the carnal play department.) I don't expect us to have/share all the same interests (that's not realistic), but we'll share a few mutual interests, casual or otherwise, which is the enjoyment we share spending time with each other.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Rush, Steve Vai, Boston, Joe Satriani, Santana, Avenged
Sevenfold, Puddle Of Mudd

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
I enjoy outdoor sex "adventures"... We take a weekend camping
trip up north of Muskegon by Lake Michigan. Late at night
we put a bottle of wine, water bottle, some fruit, including
strawberries, a couple of sex toys and a tube of lube in a
small carry pack, and take that and a blanket. We leave our
campsite to go for a "midnight hike" on a trail through the
woods and the dunes not far from the beach. When we get a nice
distance from the campground, we find a good spot off the
trail a little bit and take our clothes off and store them
there. Then we go for a nude hike along the trail. We're holding
hands and feeling the night breeze off the lake against
our naked bodies, and enjoying the "naughty" freedom we're
having together. When we find a good location on a dune above
the beach, we head off the trail and go up to the top of the
dune not far from the edge, high up near where it drops down
to the beach below, with a nice view of the lake, and the night
sky filled with stars above. We spread our blanket out,
and lie down there together to relax. We talk and drink some
wine, and kiss, and enjoy the carnal pleasures we give each
other. <br><br>
Here's a different (and kinky one): I want you to ride me
cowgirl-wise, and then while you're fucking me I want you
to pee one me, all over my cock and balls, and I want to fees
your warm pee running over my ass. (Bonus moves: After we
fuck a little in your wetness, you spin around and start
licking and sucking my cock, and put your pussy on my mouth,
and then we both pee some more during our hot 69.) <br><br>
On another note, I wanted to say a little more here about
the "master/slave" role-playing selection I made in that
list. The type I like is a little different, as a "public
dare" type of game - turned into me telling you what to do.
For example, one day we're going out somewhere together
and I tell you, "Today, babe, here are your dressing rules
- you wear a shirt and a skirt, no panties, no bra, and your
skirt has to be above your knees, and your shirt must have
buttons in the front, and I control how many of the buttons
actually get buttoned. While we're out and about, I might
tell you to expose your pussy or your tits, or both. I might
tell you to start fingering your pussy. I might tell you
to take the dildo out of your purse and start fucking yourself
with it. I might tell you to take my cock out and starting
sucking it. I might tell you to remove your skirt, drop it
on the ground, and then complete some task before you put
it back on. It's possible I might even tell you to take off
your shirt and skirt completely and be nude. Many things
are possible. All commands must be obeyed promptly. If
at any time you refuse, this will add to your punishment
later at the appropriate time (and remember, my spankings
or lashings are not just light taps - you will know you've
been a bad girl.)

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Urolagnia (Water Sports/Urine), Light Bondage, Spanking, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds, Sex outdoors!

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Creativity/Kinkiness level, Uninhibited

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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