I am a widower, my wife of 9 years recently died a few months ago. I am a DAV (disabled american veteran) If you need more details on that please ask. I am in the process of rebuilding my business, I make candles, distill essential oils. grow and dry herbs, woodworking, and many other things. I am looking for partners for both business and pleasure. I am game for almost anything business or pleasure as long as its legal and hurts no one. Some people have told me I need to pour out my hart a lot more in my profile, so hold on to your panties girls because here it comes... my wife passed away on 28 Feb. this year, she had been sick both mentally and physically for over 5 years before she died with her condition starting mildly bad and getting much as worse as the years went on. Through that time she was in serious it execrating pain most of the time, because of this intimacy was almost imposable, I believe we had sex 1 or 2 times in the last 5 years of her life and not at all the last 2. I am a man of principles and i vowed I would never cheat on my spouse and I never did during my first marriage which was to a very abusive alcoholic, and I never cheated on my late wife while she was alive, and I have decided I won't help anyone else cheat on their spouse ether. as my wife got sicker she moved around less took less care of her health, and her weight increased at an alarming rate, until her heart could no longer take it and stopped that morning on Feb 28th. In the time after her death I have been dealing with all the junk she had acquired because of her addiction to shopping and E-bay, the house was packed from floor to ceiling in many of the rooms in our 3 bedroom double wide Mobile home, also filled 8x10 shed and 2 10x20 storage units. Not much of it was of much Monterey value. My disabilities started to get bad Thur the time of my wife's ordeal, but I did manage to get a better idea what was wrong with me. My current working diagnosis is now Adult attention deafecet hyperactive syndrome and bi-pl-ore disorder with phycoiase. I am currently very well managed by medication. So here I am Ladies, very emotionally scared and bruised but still standing and ready for more. Any takers?

My Ideal Person My ideal person would be a woman who is fun fun, like to be a Little in control no control freaks, I've had enough of them, Likes dogs, I have an 11 year old Australian Shepard she goes with me every where, she my redneck car alarm, likes classic rock and roll, and does not mind that that I am older.