[COLOR red]UPDATE ALREADY and this profile is NEW! I AM NOT INTERESTED IN CHEATING MARRIED MEN, so don't ask!! READ the profile![/COLOR] ... AND NOW TWICE IN THE SAME DAY. If you have a GIRLFRIEND as well, I am NOT interested in you. So, don't have a girlfriend and contact ME, because I'll do my damnedest to bust your ass OUT if you lie to me!! I'm an attractive blonde who has been single for many years and boyfriend free by choice. I spent more than several years experimenting and fulfilling ALL my fantasies and still do it at times. I don't mean just a few, I mean hardcore, nasty and even perverse ones. I dance to the beat of my own drummer, and if you can't handle a woman who has probably done MORE than you sexually, then don't get in touch. I'm open now to something more than just fun and open good times and would prefer a monogamous relationship .... unless boyfriend WANTS me with other MEN (edited for an asshole who couldn't understand I said NO WOMEN!!) haha! Oh, and if you're bisexual, that's cool, because I am too, although that doesn't mean I'm playing or that you are getting any other FEMALES. If it happens, it's because I bring it up, not you. I'm a no BS kind of woman, VERY direct, very open and I do NOT care to email forever nor wait for weeks or months to exchange if there appears to be a real interest. I appreciate more than unintelligible, unpunctuated one liners on here as well, as I am an intelligent woman and I get turned on by intelligence, wit and quick mindedness in a man. Contrary to some men's popular belief, your genitalia is NOT your biggest sex organ, it's that creative brain of yours. I have absolutely NO interest in married men, so if you email me, don't let it be a hook up email ok? Thanks. If it's just a complimentary email, that's fine, I'm not a bitch. Also, I NEED a face photo and I will NOT ask for one, NOR do I care for cock only photos either on a profile. Hell, you might as well have a picture of your foot or your teeth or your belly button, but it's whole collective picture I want, starting with your face. If you live some distance from me I'm definitely ok with that, because I have basically only gone out with people from out of town/state for the last 6 years or so. Just be able and willing to travel or get me to you for our first meeting. I do have an extremely open schedule as I'm fortunate enough to work at home with my own business and can work anywhere and at my own pace. And, speaking of work, I am, for the majority, in the adult business now in one way or another, although am a professional as well by trade and have always had well paid, professional non adult careers. Not all of what I do is adult, including filming NON NUDE fetish models primarily. And I do not use AFF or dating sites for my work, so please don't confuse the two, NOR focus on my business in meeting. I only mention it because it could be a deterrent to meeting and I prefer to get it out of the way. If you also find it offensive to meet a woman who has appeared in multiple magazines, then don't bother contacting me at ALL! In addition, I am a Pro Domme. All of this may seem in contrast to now desiring a monogamous relationship, but it isn't. As for age, I prefer my age or younger, not older ... just my thing. And again, I expect someone very direct and open and who is serious about meeting, so please don't waste my time with what ifs. Oh women, yes, I'm open to those too, but I'm VERY much into submissive women or at least not a dominant woman. I'll NEVER EVER be the submissive woman, and I LOVE playing hard with a strap on and can get really "out there". Let me reiterate that I'm VERY VERY open to LOTS of kinks .... LOTS, so don't be afraid to ask, yet please don't insult me and ask me to be part of your unfulfilled age boy 3-some fantasy ... been there, done that, and be more original than that silly one ok? I love strap on play and love domme sessions and can get way way out there, but I like vanilla, cuddly sex as well.[COLOR red][/COLOR]

My Ideal Person I find intelligence and wit to be very sexy. I'm financially succesfully and work out of my home. Yet, I DO want a partner who is successful as well, and that strives to achieve goals in his life as well as achieving financial stability as well. Creativity, passion and COMpassion are essential, along with honesty and a realization that to be open with your emotions doesn't mean that you are a wimp. I love to travel, so I like a partner who likes to as well and who is spontaneous and doesn't have to plan things to death. Plans are made to be changed and mishaps occur, so be flexible.

I love a very open man, yet I'm not looking for a swing partner and any "playing" is discussed if it's done at all.

Be serious about meeting and don't be expecting a quick and easy one time fuck only. I've been there, done that, and had some MEN telling ME they felt like they had been used, haha, but those days are over ... pretty much lol

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Sadomasochism, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Urolagnia (Water Sports/Urine), Rimming, Fetishes, Light Bondage, Spanking, Role Playing, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Leather, Latex, Fisting, Massage

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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