If there is such a thing as sexual intelligence, then I'm looking for a guy who is a genius. I enjoy intense and powerful sex- I am never the first one to stop so I need someone with alot of physical energy! I'm creative, and love to explore new ways of eroticism. I'm attractive, curvy, intelligent and I have a good sense of humor... no controlling, subservient, depressed or anal lovers welcomed. Just a balance between passion, appreciation and multiple orgasms. Conversation after sex: preferred. By the way, my curves are all natural and womanly, and I prefer to keep my shaving to a bikini-line & trim only. My philosophy is to first look aesthetically pleasing for myself in the mirror - trust my judgement. I love to dress pretty, and to accentuate my curvy features with lace, silk, satin... whatever looks beautiful. Suggestions are always welcomed. QUANTIFY THE DATA: Can someone quantify how the "male endowment" is measured? A woman's bra size is an objective reality- a 36D is a 36D- but the response options for "male endowment" seems a bit subjective and vague. How far can "average" take you? DISCLAIMER: Just a bit of scientific inquiry and not necessarily a value judgement on size.[U][/U][B][/B]

My Ideal Person I admire a man who is direct, honest, clean and who does not have deep issues of anger or control. I really don't respond well to the "Hey, look at my dick!" approach. What I crave is the intense desires and fantasies of a man that throb inside his thoughts at night when he is lonely and bored... pics of dicks with a short "hey, want some?" message just doesn't do it for me. I prefer a little more detail to your story.

OK, I may require a bit more maintenance than the one-night-stand types, but I am looking for a little more intensity and depth. Rest assured, I am not here looking for a spouse. What I REALLY want: a man who has the grace and charm of a Victorian gentleman: sophisticated in dress and manner, educated, discreet, energetic; and you should be more conservative in public, but passionate, wild and uninhibited in private.

As far as your body, I honestly do not mind you with ripping muscles, but I don't mind a small amount of the extra stuff some of you tend to get in the belly and around the waist. So, if you have a little extra in those areas, rest assured that I do find that quite attractive and delicious. What I find most desirable physically in a man are strong arms and shoulders, and really strong thighs.

I love to get my hair pulled, but I am definitely not into extreme pain, humiliation or hard core bondage, though.

A Gentleman's Guide to making a woman feel like a Lady:

1. Flowers are always nice, but no carnations
2. Walk on the street side; offering arm depends on location
3. Always open the door for a lady
4. Remove your hat when in doors
5. Speak your partner's name a few times when together
6. NEVER, NEVER stare at another woman for longer than .02 seconds when you are on a date, and do not share tales of prior or current affairs when you are with her (make her feel as though there are no others otherwise you may lose the attention very quickly.
7. Eye contact - gender difference: Women look at each other when they communicate; men generally do not with each other. Try your best to look in the woman's eyes when you chat, especially when she is speaking to you or she may think you are not listening even though you are. This will avoid the reprimanding imperative, "Look at me when I speak to you!" that you may have first heard long ago from your mother or elementary school teacher.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, The middle of a park, My desk at work, A hotel room, On an ancient road scarred with chariot markings

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Light Bondage, Spanking, Massage, biting my neck, tugging at my hair

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
King Leonidas of Sparta... now that is one hell of a man!

Have you ever had cybersex?:
No way. I only want skin on skin.

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