[COLOR crim][B]UPDATE AS OF 8-1-10 I'm not looking for a FWB right now.B][/COLOR] Okay I am tired of people wasting mine and their time. [B]I have had herpies since 2000[/B] [U]and my husband does not[/U]. We are seperated and will be divorcing. I'm 5'-4" about 220pds brown hair & eyes. I love baking & cooking, gardening & being out doors a much as I like to relax & watch football or a movie. I'm big on scrap booking but I find so many things to do around the house... so for now it's just sitting. I am always questioning & learning, & I seem young and alive no matter what my chronological age, for my mind is always alert, curious, and flexible & open to new experiences. I have a like enthusiasm for anything new & I learn easily, but I also get bored rather quickly. I can be something of a scatterbrain, for I tend to have so many ideas & irons in the fire that it is hard to keep track of them all. I need & crave variety, change, mental stimulation, & an active social life. I’m serious, disciplined, & quietly ambitious, & driven to prove myself & to achieve accomplishments & success. My work, my position in the world, & my contributions to society are very important to me. I will persevere through enormous hardship & frustration in order to reach a goal I have set for myself, & I often sacrifice much in the area of peral relationships & home life in order to do so. [COLOR red]WARNING: Any institutions using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects - You do NOT have my permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a serious violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. It is recommended that other members post a similar notice to this [/COLOR]

My Ideal Person *** IF YOU'RE SO SERIOUS, THEN WHY HAVEN'T WE MET? ***

My definition of a friend with benefits is...

FWB = Someone to hang out with inside and OUTSIDE the bedroom on many more than one occasion. Not a relationship - No heart strings attached....just friendship strings. Not necessarily a monogamous situation, but both are up front and honest with each other.

Please READ the PHYSICAL STUFF on the additional questions before contacting. I will ask question about it and I'm not looking to waste either of our time.

Right now I'm looking for a friend with benefits. It not just a sexual thing for me to get off it's intamacy as well. I want to be friends with the person when it is all said and done. I need him to be completely honest with me as I will be with him. I'm look for someone who is going to treat me right. I want someone who knows what it is to give and receive in a relationship. He should know sometime you have to give in to make the other person happy. I want him to be understanding and know how to communicate. I like to be romance even if I get embarrassed and it doesn’t have to be anything big either. The small things are just as important and mean the world to me. I believe there truly is someone that will treat me the way I deserve to be treated. If your looking for a one night stand don't bother waisting my time. I would prefer to find one guy that will be there to take care of my needs and that's not just sex guys. Sometime it means cuddleing up th couch. I don't want to be rushed so if you can't hang out for a while then forget it.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, A rollercoaster, The beach, A moving vehicle (i.e. car), The middle of a park, An airplane, A movie theatre, The stands at a sporting event, A remote wilderness spot, Under a waterfall, My desk at work, A swimming pool or hot tub, A store dressing room, An elevator, A hotel room

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Massage

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Yes, there is more then one and for different reasons.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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