I'm kinky and open-minded once we're acquainted, a bit shy at first. Not afraid to tell you what I want, and I know my hard limits. I'm a fat girl with the obligatory fat girl body issues. I'm into all kinds of cool subcultures and music. I like tattoos and body piercings, music (lots, but mostly punk) coffeehouse culture and independent media. Pretty much anything, if it's new or interesting. I believe in the redemptive power of good literature, and I read like a maniac. I'm pretty comfortable with who I am. No appologies, no regrets.

My Ideal Person I want to touch and be touched. Explore new things with a partner who isn't afraid to follow, but who's willing to lead as well sometimes. I'm looking for someone who's kinky, willing to do it in new places, try out toys, etc. I'm open to being with a heterosexual crossdresser if he's got good taste in shoes. I'm a chunky girl, so I like big guys. Penis size isn't hugely important, but ... give me something to work with. Sex is about 99% mental, so please be fairly clever and creative. Funny is a huge bonus. We can hang out outside of the sex, or not. But please be able to spell and punctuate as well as drug and disease free.