I am a very voluptuous woman. I’m searching for partners that are willing to have semi-casual encounters. I’m a very passionate, open, sexually intense partner. While some people have described me at first as shy, I have a tendency to warm up very quickly when I have true chemistry with someone. Although I have not had an extremely large amount of lovers, the lovers that I have had in the past; have all experienced a wide range of intense and penetrating sensations while we were together. In my every day life I enjoy a variety of activities such as; dressing up as a wench and going to Renaissance festivals, and going out dancing and frolicking with friends. On the quieter side of my life I enjoy quiet evenings curled up on the couch in the arms of someone who enjoys cuddling, while watching a movie. I feel that the act of sex takes on a deeper and more impassioned sensation when both parties engage in the acts of fore-play; such as cuddling, kissing, making out, hand stimulation, and oral sex. It is my truest belief that the act of sex itself should be like the icing on the cake, not the entire cake. The act of sex itself, by its very nature is an act that becomes more pleasurable when a certain level of suspense has been build up and then allowed to reach a climax.

My Ideal Person Things I’m looking for:

Sexual situations

Friends with Benefits – A lot of people may consider “Friends with benefits” as just fucking, but I consider it to be more than that. To me “Friends with benefits” implies that there is a friendship. This mean that we can hang out, watch movies, talk, and be relaxed with each other with out the pressing need to rip our clothes off. The friend’s situation is required before the sexual encounter, but it is a hope that after a period of time this will occur naturally.

Requirements

Age Requirement- Although I have no problem with older men up to a certain age, my age limits are between 21 years old and 40 years old.

Facial Hair Preferences- I prefer men that have no facial hair to well groomed goatees. No beards.

Body Hair Preferences- I prefer body hair in the proper places with a high degree of grooming, especially below the belt. I also like men with less body hair, but I don’t require it.

Basic Hygiene- I require my partners to be freshly showered, groomed, and dressed in clean clothes. The same as I would be for them.

Physical Health- My partners need to be in good health, meaning they need to not have any STD’s or any illness that will restrict their performance.

Recreational Substances- I would prefer that my partners not partake in any substance such as drugs or alcohol before our encounters; due to the fact that these substances have a tendency to decrease the enjoyment of the act for both parties.

Relationship Status- I prefer to be with partners that are single. I will only engage in situations with non-single people when their partner has agreed to an open, swinging or poly relationship.

Intelligence- It is a must that my partners understand and comprehend that no means no. It does not mean maybe, I’ll think about it, sort of, nor does it imply that you should attempt to pressure me into any other response that does not come naturally.

Ego and Bullshit- I do not want to hear whining, bitching, or argument about the following. If you can’t get me off, you need to understand that my pleasure is not about satisfying your ego. If you’re stimulating me in any fashion and I am expressing pleasure, do not ruin it for me with Constance questions about your ability to get me off. Pleasure is felt in a number of ways, not just through quick satisfaction and fast orgasm. If I wanted that, some porn and a vibrator would do the job just fine.

Personality Preferences- I like my partners to have confidence, but not to the point of cockiness or arrogance. I like them to have a good sense of humor and be fun, but also have a deeper, more serious side to them. I’d rather not have people that have major religious hang-ups that would keep them from experiencing the full spectrum of pleasure.

Toys and Extra Stimulus – I need to have a man that is not threatened by the idea that I may use toys such as vibrators or other forms of sexual stimulations during our encounters to increase my pleasure or assist me in orgasming. I like to use such things as vibrators, dildos, or porn, and I don’t mind if my partners bring their own toys that they or I may use on them.

Give and Take

Time – I expect my partner to be able to take their time and not rush an encounter. If you have a problem with longer encounters or the ability to sustain, please don’t bother me. I have an active sex drive and need a partner that can go the distance. If you can not devote at least a minimum of a couple of hours to an encounter don’t waste my time.

Level of Quality- I prefer my partners to have a moderate to high level of not only experience but also skill. If you do not fall into this category you must be open minded, willing to take advice and suggestions that will help increase your performance and longevity. For either of these groups you must be willing to not only listen but attempt to perform certain acts in the way that I like them, and not they way you think it should be done. Of course this means I am also open and willing to learn about the things you like.

Dating and relationships

Dating- Some people consider hanging out as in a “Friends with benefits” situation dating. I do not consider basic social interaction to be dating. Regardless of how things progress until it is discussed, decided, and both parties have stated that we are dating, we are not.

I consider dating to be casual, and non-monogamous.

Relationship- This is some where that dating may go, however it’s not required. Once again this is something that has to be discussed and decided by both people involved. I consider a relationship to be monogamous in all ways.

Expression of Emotions-I consider myself to be an emotionally expressive person; I tend to express my emotion for the people I meet and come to care about. Intimate situations often involve different levels of feelings on my part. I can express my emotions to a deep level without needing to be in a relationship. Never assume that my emotional response means more than exactly what I’m expressing. Should my feelings ever advance I would discuss it with my partner.

Honesty Requirements

When Contacting Me – Please do not contact me with some bullshit, about how manly you are, how big your cock is, or how fabulous you are in bed and how you will rock my world. These are things that need to be proven and not stated as an introduction. Please give me your basic information, such as age, what you’re looking for and anything else you would like me to know about you. If you have them please attach pictures. While cock pictures are nice, I would prefer to know what you really look like rather than what you’re packing.

Being a very voluptuous woman my partners need to understand that being with me is something that needs to be a choice made out of desire on their part; and should not be an attempt to act out or fulfill a fetish/fantasy.

During encounters – My partners need to be able to clearly communicate what they would like me to do to them, or what they would like me to not do. They also need to be able to understand and be able to follow the instructions that they are given without experiencing insecurities.

Upon Leaving – In a perfect world I would like my partners to be able to be honest with me when they wish to no longer associate with me for any reason. I don’t need a long goodbye but I would like it if a person would simply state that they are no longer interested. If you would like to tell me why that’s fine but remember to be respectful with any suggestions or comments.

I really hate it when everything seems to be going fine and then all of a sudden without notice my phone calls, emails, and IMs are not returned or responded to. If for some reason you are no longer interested just simply say so, do not leave me dangling without so much as a goodbye.

Note: If you read this and find it to be too detail, don’t bother contacting me as you wasting my time as well as yours. I know what I want and this it is.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
If you really want to know ask! :)

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, The beach, The middle of a park, A dark back alley, A movie theatre, A swimming pool or hot tub, An elevator, A hotel room

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Spanking, Role Playing, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds, Massage

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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