I'm very shy at first, it helps to have someone make me feel at ease....for example making me laugh, genuinly getting to know me, and hopefully making new friends. I'm very open minded and willing to try almost anything once...I'm a very passionate person when it comes to sex. I guess you could say I'm still stuck in the fantasy world where making love is like it is in the movies...I don't do one night stands, granted I can't predict wheather or not it will happen, and sometimes there not all that bad, but I prefer to see the person more than once, I can be discreet, but I do not do cheaters, If your wife/husband has no idea that your out tom/pussy catting around behind their backs. It's called a divorce, get one.