UPDATE: 10272009 - Day before the 43rd YEAR BENCHMARK!! Looking back, it's been a journey of good and bad that combined makes it called "wisdom". Looking ahead, it will be a journey of using that "wisdom", seeing the good in the bad AND vice versa, working less on all levels, and keeping my foot off the brake even at the red light and balance it out so that I can take off as fast or as slow as I want to when the light turns green in EVERY part of my life. If that makes sense, then you're probably a diamond in the rough, just like me GETTING OLDER, A PRIVLEDGE DENIED TO MANY!
UPDATE: 10172009 - "Behind blue eyes", I'm feeling a little "weathered", as I “fell on black days” by remaining in a mental "sanitarium", where all I wanted was to "just feel better" and instead “created my own prison”, but as I again “kick start my heart”, thinking "what if", and determined to "overcome" and “turn the page” with "no more drama", no more “waiting in vain”, “no excuses” and no more picking the “man in the box” who refuses to live outside the box I’m feeling ok with "my whiskey hangover", because "nothing else matters", and I have no right to seek to be “unforgiven”, because "girls just wanna have fun" and “there ain’t no rest for the wicked”. So for now “wherever I may roam” “, I’m “indestructible”, alias back at Adult FriendFinder “WELCOME TO THE JUNGLE!”
UPDATE 02072009 - First, I hope all is well with everyone that I've had the pleasure of talking to and meeting and to those I have yet to on either account. It's been a journey of sorts, such as this thing called life, but I've met some really, really cool people here that I would have never ordinarily met outside this realm and for that ALONE, has made this an experience of learning and opening myself up to the unknown that I wouldn't have even considered otherwise...THEREFORE, NO REGRETS!
Second, music is like oxygen to me, so that's the best way for me to communicate, THROUGH SONG, here or otherwise! For those that share the same or even similar taste for music that I do, or can feel like I do at any given moment or time when they hear or see the words to a song, and can relate in some capacity, will INEVITABLY, be what I'd take preference to MENTALLY AND SEXUALLY. An addiction of sorts, MUSIC AND SEX! IT IS WHAT IT IS and if I have to explain why I blog about music on a sex/swinger site, I WON'T EXPLAIN BEYOND THIS as you would never understand what I need or want in any department or level! I do seem to be drawn to guitar players, but still have a strong connection with the Travis Barkers and Tommy Lee's of the world
Third, I apologize for not returning responses as quickly as most would like, but I'm trying, I swear! Thank you for taking the time to read, comment and share within the confines of Adult FriendFinder WELCOME TO THE JUNGLE, WE'Z ALL FAMILY NOW!
Fourth, the best part about SuperBowl XXXXIII was the pause for the cause! We'll agree to disagree about the Steelers!!!! Although probably some of the best sex I've had to date came from a die-hard Steelers' fan, showing sum love as always for HORSEPOWERKING, so for this and this alone, THANK YOU BLACK AND GOLD! Now, on to bigger and better things...IT'S NASCAR TIME!
THE STUFF THAT NEVER CHANGES: Simple kind of woman searching for the same in MALE counterpart: an open-minded, non-judgmental, confident, positive thinking, MUSIC-LOVING, adrenaline junkie like me, fun to hang out with at the end of day, got plans for life kinda guy!
Perhaps to my own detriment, I'm a little shy and reserved upon meeting, but by the same note, I have a sense of humor and have somewhat of a wild streak, okay, a lot, so I've been told, lol, when I'm in my comfort zone.
BONUS: sexual energy that matches my own!!!!! THE MORE I GET THE MORE I WANT! And those who truly know me, can attest this statement is probably an UNDERSTATEMENT!
Enjoy someone that challenges me mentally (in a good way) and is diverse in topics other than SEX--well traveled mentally NOT sexually; A person doesn't necessarily have to have a college degree THANK GOSH to be well-rounded as the most fascinating and REAL people I've grown to love and talk to never went to college but ARE WISER THAN THOSE THAT HAVE.
HONESTY is a must, don't have time for BULLSHIT, nor should you, it's a waste of good time that is just not granted to any of us.
LIFE is 2 short, so LIVE 4 the moment with no regrets/no bullshit!
If curious or interested, e-mail me back with pic and, if interested, I will return the favor.
In the meantime, be safe and NEVER, EVER settle for less than what you are truly seeking!
My Ideal Person:
Someone that truly lives by ACTIONS speak LOUDER than WORDS!!!!!!!!! doesn't just "TALK" the talk, BUT who "WALKS" the walk. This time around actions will speak louder than words! A MAN THAT IS REAL 24/7 AND JUST HONEST (STILL APPARENTLY RARE TO FIND)! A man of his word, EXTINCT (ok, for the most part)!
What are your favorite musicians or bands?: Creed, Metallica, STP, Steeley Dan, Allman Bros., Soundgarden, Disturbed, Godsmack, TOO MANY TO NAME
Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!: LMAO, I'm a mob movie fan, so anything dealing with a main Scarface or Godfather character........to the opposite end of the spectrum being "detained" by a gorgeous State Trooper!
What types of sexual activities turn you on?: Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Light Bondage, Role Playing, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds, Massage
Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?: I only obtain the obtainable.....
Have you ever had cybersex?: No way. I only want skin on skin.
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