I seem to have a hard time finding couples whom are attracted to me. I am just hoping that this site changes that ;-) I do have a tendency to pass gas and leak during sex. I am a soft swap/full-swap girl - just depends on the couple or the lady, comfort levels and the chemistry. Not into one night stands and would prefer to build a long lasting friendship with benefits. I am not pushy, and do not wish to meet those who are. There is nothing worse than being on a "date", and being told that we have to hurry things along to suit somebody's "schedule" for the night! No agendas, please!