******Feb 2009 UPDATE ******* Guys...I am W-A-Y behind on everything so if you are trying to talk to me and not getting a reply (even my ongoing friends) please be patient. The ice storm last week had us w/o power for almost a whole week and there is also tons of debris clean-up I have to do (yes, I am the kind of woman who ENJOYS wielding a chainsaw, lol!) Anyway, I am mentally and physically tired from all the extra (and unplanned) work plus hubby and I are traveling to Memphis for a planned trip for the rest of this week for the international blues challenge. Long story short, I am just not getting on here much these last few days....of for the next few upcoming ones for that matter so please hang in there.
Like to ride my Harley, play electric bass...and well, have sex. I have a fine marriage, but just enjoy some "adventure" once in awhile...want to know more?
***2009 update*** I recently celebrated being on this site one year and I am honored by all the views, messages, and I am especially excited by the friends I have met in person. I am going to get a bit busier this year as I add taking college classes to my schedule, but am not giving up ALL my fun! Just continue to be patient with me if I am slow to reply...well, heck...maybe you should nicely remind me if I am TOO slow, LOL! I tend to find it challenging to get away to meet up, often only finding time to connect for about 2-3 hours. This does not mean I do not like to have a lengthy intimate session...just that it is VERY hard for me to be able to do so away from home. Though I have gone out and jumped right into the fun stuff several times, I am doing less of that these days so please be ready to allow me a chance to get know you by planning to meet you once or twice before you "expect" the fun to start. I have been known to be talked out of the waiting time...but please don't be pushy...it needs to feel like a seduction I am NOT big on having dinner bought for me, preferring to meet for cokes, coffee, or if later in the evening perhaps a drink or two....for me it is about the talk time.
Yes, my hubby really has given me permission to be out doing this, but remember I have several kids and family obligations that MUST come first. I ask any of you guys who want to be friends with me to be patient yet somewhat persistant as I get busy and sometimes forget where I left off, LOL. One other thing I guess I should mention. For those of you who never hear back from me...please forgive me, but keep in mind I DO get a lot of sex at home and am TOTALLY spoiled by having a hot looking hubby I am totally attracted to. Sometimes I just don't "feel" the chemistry...even if you do. I also should say that I generally don't reply to guys who smoke, though I have made a few exceptions. I am not opposed to being friends, but please do not assume I will be ok with it related to getting physical. I don't mean this as judgemental, just that I used to smoke so am more sensitive to smoke (and its smell on people) than I used to be.
I really enjoyed my 2008 on here and am hoping for a fun 2009!
My Ideal Person:
I like all people, but I admit I am most turned on by tall guys, lean or athletic guys, guys with average and above packages, guys who are creative, guys who are sensual and seductive in their talk (though occasionally I get aroused by the more direct approach.) I do know what I like sexually, but I admit I am not as practiced at saying what I want as one might expect since I am used to a man who reads women easily and takes the lead. I would love to meet a guy for the first time not "expecting" anything and have him tease me until a roll in the hay is the only thing we both can think about! (actually this happened once in 2008 and it WAS fun!)
Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!: Probably my most MAJOR fantasy and one I am hoping will happen in one form or another, is to be in a (non-threatening) gang bang situation. No guys on guys, the guys can even be mostly dressed and just watching and taking turns. When I use this fantasy to get off I am either spread eagle on a pool table after hours at some club, in the back of a pickup truck, or in a back room while a party is going onjust outside the door. Guys just keep joining in fucking me until my cunt is just flooding. There is so much cum (mine and theirs) I am literally in a puddle. During all this guys are also taking turns on licking me and having me suck their cocks until finally the more bold guys are doing it ALL to me at the same time...even the two cocks in me at the same time...*sighs* THAT is an amazing fantasy!
What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?: A bed, The beach, The middle of a park, A dark back alley, A remote wilderness spot, A swimming pool or hot tub, A store dressing room, A hotel room, At a nightclub
What types of sexual activities turn you on?: Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Mutual Masturbation, Participating in Erotic Photography
Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?: nope, not really...
Have you ever had cybersex?: I've tried it, but it's just not the same.
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