****UPDATE**** 2/18/08 Since I created this profile, I have acquired a few consistant FWB, so I'm not actively looking anymore at this point. At first I was going to keep my account active just in case, but I don't need the expense right now, so I'm going back to just a standard membership for the time being. Again, thanks for your interest in missle defense. Have a nice day. \\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\**Profile updated 2.18.08** Ok, so here's my story... I just recently got divorced. We were married for nearly 4 years, together for 7 and the main reason we split is because we hardly ever had sex and it just wasn't working for me. So I'm looking for a low-stress friend with benefits who has a reasonable amount of time available for getting together a couple of times a week. What can I tell you about me? I believe that you have to do what you love in life and I'm lucky enough to work in a field that has meaning beyond making money. I grew up on the East Coast, went to college in the midwest, lived in NYC for a couple of years and have been in Colorado Springs for 9 years. One of my greatest passions in life is dancing... right now, that primarily takes the form of belly dancing. I like to go out and dance, but I don't need someone to dance with... I am perfectly happy on the dance floor by myself, in fact, I get a little annoyed when a guy gets all grabby on me while I'm trying to dance. With gorgeous women, it's another story; I love dorking out or getting all bump & grindy with another girl on the dance floor. It's a double standard, I know. I am extremely socially liberal. I thrive on interesting conversation and I like to learn new things and having new experiences. I am a fairly straightforward and honest person. I have no patience for bullshit or stupid games. I have been called a firecracker and a handfull, so I am definitely not for the faint of heart.

My Ideal Person My main criteria is that there has to be chemistry, which is all but impossible to determine online, so I'm not opposed to meeting in person, but I make no promises until I can tell if there's chemistry. I'm not really interested in one night stands.

While I know that we all have our insecurities, I am really only interested in meeting someone who has self-confidence and is not needy. Intelligence and a quick witted/sarcastic sense of humor are big turn ons. I've spent a lot of my adult life going dutch, so, shallow as it may sound, I'd prefer someone who will pick up the tab for dinner, drinks, etc. without a second thought. You must be able to handle a strong, independent woman who likes to play with the power differential. Sometimes I want to be in charge and other times, I want to be shown who's boss. Ok, I'm sorry, it's cracking me up that I'm writing this. I can't handle people who take themselves too seriously.

I am an extremely busy person so location/distance is pretty important. I live in the downtown area and I don't like having to go east of Union or north of Garden of the Gods to hang out.

Oh yeah, and if you want to contact me, don't just send me a picture of your cock. I had that happen several times in the first 24-hours after signing up for this site and it sort of repulses me. I relish the art of seduction, so cutting right to the chase like that won't get you anywhere but deleted.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Phish,

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
An airplane, A dark back alley, A remote wilderness spot, My desk at work, An elevator, A hotel room

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Receiving Oral Sex, Light Bondage, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds, Massage, Public places, biting

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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