March 1, 2009 Alright...in a brief moment of clarity, I have decided to update my info. I have been here awhile now and I have made a couple of really good friends, have certainly experienced some adventures, and am not quite ready to give up on the site altogether. I have come to the conclusion that my wants and needs have changed some. I imagine that this new info will decrease my mail, inquiries, etc but....what is the point if we're not honest in the first place? I admit it....I am looking for some substance!! Yes, it's a sex site and many will think I should remove my profile since I am not just about the sex. I am approaching 37 yrs of age. I have been married, am going thru divorce, have experienced life, death, love and heartbreak. If someone out there is interested in more than just sex on the side or a quickie....someone who might actually be interested in the person vs the gender, please keep reading. I would like to make a connection with someone. I would like to think of someone and grin, develop stories with someone and continue to live in a real world. I don't want to hide from the wives anymore, don't want to have to worry about who may see me calling. I want to smile and laugh...in AND out of the bedroom. I DON'T need to spend every waking moment with you but I would like to LIKE you!! That's right....I'm demanding!..I want to KNOW you! End of current update! I am definitely sure this is NOT where I should be. I have been here awhile now and can honestly say that I probably SHOULD NOT be here, but I am...so, on with it. Sometimes u need to make that bad judgement call to discover things u may have been missing. I am separated after a very long, cold, nasty year. (Divorce is in process) I have been out of the dating pool for over 14 years and am having a few "adjustment" issues. I am looking for someone I can spend time with, and enjoy that time! I am not out solely for sex, but obviously, it would be a nice bonus. I am not a casual kind of girl, but I am NOT looking to run head first into a huge commitment. I have class but I'm not a snot. I can behave in proper situations and be a complete doofus in others! I am pretty shy to start, but once u gain my trust and friendship, that will disappear. Please do not call me and invite me to a hotel. I prefer you NOT send me cock shots, but definitely do not unless they are accompanied by a face shot! (Not all of us are completely about "the goods.") And, PLEASE, do not contact me unless you have a brain with something in it worth sharing. Ok, looking at all I have just written, I look a bit bitter...but that isn't really the case. This is a male dominated site and I think the above info will help some of you save time. I am looking for quality, not quantity.

My Ideal Person Looking for a nice, fun guy (age range 30-45, preferably) who may want to make this a regular thing. Must be intelligent and able to carry on a conversation. I am currently a business owner and have no real schedule. I never know what each day will bring. I would like to meet a bright, flexible, funny and caring individual that is missing something in their life, as I am. I am not looking for my Romeo, the solution to all my problems nor my future husband. I am not looking for a quickie either. There has to be more than good sex in order to maintain my interest. Think you can keep me interested? By all means, send me an email!

You don't have to be beautiful, but I still believe attraction needs to be present. I want that little feeling of butterflies in my stomach when I see you. And...that is not achieved by physical appearance alone! I want chemistry, don't you?

A good KISSER makes all the difference in the world! A truly phenonemal kiss can put a whole new spin on everything!

PS: Another definite plus....I have my own helmet and Harley jacket! Wanna get me to shut up? Stick me on the back of a bike, head out to points unknown... and I will stay as quiet as a mouse! (if ya want me to!)

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
changes all the time....Madonna, Marilyn Manson, DaveMatthews,
Eminem, Beastie Boys, techno, etc

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, The beach, The middle of a park, A remote wilderness spot, Under a waterfall, My desk at work, An elevator, A hotel room

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Light Bondage, Food Play

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Not actual fantasies...but there is some serious eye-candy
out there!

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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