Who I am...well, let's see I'm shy, a little recluse, but easily come out of my shell with a few drinks. I'm very simple and basic, but also quite adventurous in my sex life. I could go for vanilla or with some toppings. :) I'm honest in what I want and will explain if I'm not interested. However, I am very sweet, pretty funny, and at least a little intelligent. I like rousing conversation, yet not that condescending type. I don't like any complications, so if you're not supposed to be doing this, don't--which probably won't apply much, because I'm not looking for single men and they're the ones that are usually not supposed to be doing this.

My Ideal Person I'm looking for someone simple with no drama. A little drama is fine, it makes things interesting. But not someone who thrives on it; that's just frustrating. I'm looking for women, period. Couples, I may be interested in you, but please understand, my husband will be involved. I don't do couples alone. She is also funny, witty, fairly attractive, is willing to make the first move (again, I'm shy), but if not, that's OK, honest about what she wants, and lives within a 90-mile radius.

MEN: There has been a change in what I'm looking for. While women hold precedent, I am looking for a man that would be interested in a MMF threesome. This person would have to be non-pressuring, patient, and really willing to please me. And no one over 40.

WOMEN: PLEASE UNDERSTAND, I'M NOT LOOKING TO INCLUDE MY HUSBAND. NOT WATCHING, NOT VIDEO TAPING, NOT PARTICIPATING. SO DO NOT BE AFRAID THAT I'M GOING TO SPRING HIM ON YOU AT THE LAST MINUTE. The only way he would be invited is if you were interested and brought it up, otherwise it's not going to happen.