I'm a normal (really), sexual gal who would ultimately love to have it all: sex, love, marriage and children. I'm not like the usual women here. I'm not on here to have sex with a different man every night. I'm NOT looking for NSA. Once I find that special man I would love to explore other sexual options with him and possibly others. I am curious about swinging and sharing (although I've never done it) but only after a stable relationship with one man has been established.
I'm intelligent, classy, independent, cerebral, confident & sophisticated. Very open and honest, straightforward. To everyone who knows me (except one girl friend and a few ex lovers) I am on the shy side. I was a late bloomer. I like confident, assertive (not pushy, there is a difference) men but I can also be assertive. You've got to get into my brain first. That is the biggest turn on for me. Think of me as having a little of all four Sex and the City ladies in me I have pictures of my face and body to be shared with a select few. I'm no skinny LA girl, so if a size 2 is what you're after, I'm not it. I take my own erotic photos--I am a photographer & graphic designer. I recently moved here from 20 years in NYC. Wow, LA is different. Loving it mostly.
PLEASE NOTE: If you want my attention you will need to send an email. I don't even look at who has viewed, hotlisted or flirted with me and I will not let you into my network until at least after we've had our first date.
My Ideal Person:
Intelligent, educated, clean-cut, classy, confident without being cocky or pushy (really, no pun intended). Good hygiene. No heavy cologne--I am very sensitive to smells. STD free. A great kisser--It's a deal-breaker for me.
PLEASE READ CAREFULLY!!!!!!!
IF YOU DO NOT MEET THE SPECIFICATIONS BELOW YOU WILL NOT GET A RESPONSE FROM ME:
• Be circumcised (if your profile says 'prefer not to say' I'm going to assume you're not)
• Be in between 34 and 47 years old
• Be single, not married
• Have a picture of your FACE (or attach in your first email to me) A tiny dot of a head on a faraway body or wearing sunglasses does not count. If you're in a Speedo and not at a swim meet... well let's just say it's a big turn off.
• No facial hair. Scruff is fine on occasion but I like a clean face 99% of the time. Also, long hair belongs on women, not men.
• Spell check your emails to me. Use proper grammar. I mean it. To start with, I'm more turned on by what's in your brain than your dick.
• Don't start your first email with... “baby, my cock is so hot for you” or to that effect. Let's have a normal chat before you 'throw your cock at me,' please
• Don't tell me Adult FriendFinder matched us 100%. All it means is Gender, Distance, Relationship Goal, Drinking, Smoking, Body Type, Age, and Race matched. Hardly cause for excitement on anyone's part.
• Don't have a network collection of anyone who will allow it. I'm not looking for NSA sex.
• Don't live out of my area. No interest in someone in town on business looking for fun.
If anything I write pisses you off--keep it to yourself please--I am simply listing my preferences and I don't tell you how to live your life.
AGAIN...IF YOU DON'T HEAR BACK FROM ME--SEE ABOVE FOR REASONS WHY.
What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
U2, Sting/Police, Elton John, Frank Sinatra, Beatles,
Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
I have written a few erotic stories, but you will have to
wait until I meet you first.
What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Mutual Masturbation, Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Blindfolds, Massage, kissing, intellectual stimulation
Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Half the cast of Ocean's 11 -13 lol
Have you ever had cybersex?:
No way. I only want skin on skin.
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