*** I JUST MOVED TO THE BAY AREA FROM SAN DIEGO, MARCH 3, 2008. I DON'T KNOW A SOUL...... YET. I love the "feel" of being here. My libido is always in over-drive. I like the “personal touch” but there’s always B.O.B. to take up the slack. I find intelligence and wit extremely stimulating. I LOVE ORAL. ABSOLUTELY – EXCITES ME.(Please guys; I don’t need your hands on my head. I know what I am doing. If I need your help I’m not afraid to ask. I love all aspects of giving and receiving. I enjoy the tenderness of love making, as well as a good fucking. I am a squirt - er, on occasion, if stimulated just right. LOVE and SEX are different animals/species in my book; therefore, not equal. I know what I like; not to be mistaken for knowing what I’m looking for and am not afraid to ask for it. In order for me to KNOW what I'm looking for, I feel I would had to have experienced EVERYTHING life has to offer to know FOR SURE. So I am far from KNOWING EXACTLY WHAT I'M LOOKING FOR. However I do know what I am NOT looking for (hopefully I have received my last email that opens with, "Wow. Finally a gal who knows exactly what she is looking for.")
Conventional equals boring IN MY BOOK. IMAGINATION is also big as well as PDA. I enjoy an occasional 3 some; spontaneous rather than planned. I like to visit friends at swing club in the San Diego area where I used to be a "host" either alone or with the right person. I’m not shy but sometimes bashful. I don’t “pussy foot” around with words; rather direct and to the point. I am an “Out of the box” gal/woman. My friends describe me as HONEST TO A FAULT, sometimes brutally. I wear my heart on my sleeve. If you want to know something, ASK; NEVER ASSUME; big mistake.
One thing we can never replace is time, don’t waste mine, I won’t waste yours, please. I have been baffled with enough bullshit and not afraid to “call it as I see it”. Sometimes I come across as a total bitch when my patience and tolerance meter is maxed, but I’m the nicest, sweetest person you could ever hope to meet.
I believe we are guaranteed ONE ROUND TRIP in this life, so go for it. If it feels right, grab all experiences life throws your way. I believe life is a journey consisting winding roads of many forks, twists, turns, bumps and grinds and sometimes it’s smooth sailing; a road of many encounters and collisions; what is important is how we CHOOSE to see it. If your glass is half empty, please continue to look elsewhere. If your glass is half full, then we may have something to talk about. I believe every day is a good day and the only thing that varies is the degree of good. I believe in treating people the same as I wish to be treated; live by the GOLDEN RULE. I KEEP LIFE SIMPLE. I DO EVERYTHING WITH PASSION.
I must say most (not all) of my experiences on Adult FriendFinder have been a lot of fun and positive. I have met some really cool fascinating people of quality and substance. Friendships built. I have experienced the SENSUAL and EROTIC as well as incredible “mind-blowing” sex, without all those strings in which people so often get tangled up in. (Being single for 24 years and never having children, I don’t do well with strings). I am a firm believer that if you stimulate the brain, the body is a willing and eager participant. Although I enjoy all aspects of sex and sensuality, I prefer the erotic and sensual over the sexual; if you know and appreciate the difference, then we may have more in common. I have met people who touched my heart and soul; kindred spirits. You know who you are if you are reading this. I thank you.
My Ideal Person:
Things that TURN ME OFF, WON’T TOLERATE OR DON’T HAVE ANY PATIENCE FOR; DRAMA, JEALOUSY, FALSELY INFLATED EGOS, NEGATIVITY, LIARS, IGNORANCE, VICTIMS AND THIEVES. I believe HONESTY is PARAMOUNT. I can handle and accept ANYTHING as long its the truth. I feel my BASIC RIGHT TO CHOOSE IS TAKEN AWAY WHEN LIED TO. If, "Did you come?" are the first words out of your mouth after sex, PLEASE do yourself a favor and carry onward. MY RADAR METER IS SENSITIVE AND I NEVER HESITATE TO CALL IT AS I SEE IT. That said…………… I WELCOME MEETING; humble men radiating with confidence, integrity, a high libido (including a hard pecker) with a touch of imagination, able to communicate utilizing "the mind" and all 5 senses and knows how to have fun. “Out of the box” is high on the list too. A man that can laugh at himself (no, I’m not talking about you guys who are the only ones laughing at your own stupid jokes); a man not afraid to show his true self and character.
What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?: The middle of a park, A dark back alley, A remote wilderness spot, Anywhere
What types of sexual activities turn you on?: Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Light Bondage, Role Playing, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Participating in Erotic Photography, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds, Massage, magic carpet ride of imagination
Have you ever had cybersex?: I've tried it, but it's just not the same.
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