The philosophy I live by is "If you can't be with the one you love, love the one you're with." To me, traveling means seeing how far a tank of gas will get me. Sexually, I'm pretty wild, but only if the chemistry is right. For me a perfect Friday night is a great dinner, a hot club, then back to my place for more intimate activities. I've reached the point where it's time to get past my shy nature and meet someone new. I get along best with people who can talk about something besides sex or sports. If you contact me remember that I'm looking for a relationship, not just a one-night stand. I look forward to seeing where this leads us. I'm not changing my life, because things are great the way they are.