I am voluptuous, bisexual lady who has no logical reason to be on here. I am married (yes, married - remember I put this right at the beginning. So don't act like you didn't know. And no there aren't any issues, marital problems, lack of tcb or anything like that as a reason for my being on here. Other than the fact that I like a little something extra on ocassion. Not looking for drama (though I am fully aware that drama could come from this if things got out) That is why discretion is an absolute must. Okay now that I've gotten that out of the way...
I am a bit shy at first, and will probably not make the first move. I'm not good at being the aggressor (at least not in the beginning). But once we get to know each other and I feel comfortable with you, then be prepared for anything.
I am very submissive. I love for the person I am with to be in control of the situation. I hate to be asked if you can do something or would I do this or that...just do it or guide me in the direction you want me to go.
I have an oral fetish - giving and receiving...I love to lick and suck and be licked and sucked. In fact, If I could (legally) get a job where all I did was have my tits sucked all day, I would never retire, I would come in early and work overtime. For guys, this means the most amazing blow jobs you've ever received from someone who actually likes doing it. For women, I will not come up until you get there and then I can't guarantee that I will stop then.
My Ideal Person:
I am a professional woman so I want someone who knows the true meaning of being discrete.
In a lady, I am looking for someone who is not just curious or who wants to be a pillow princess (lay back, get licked and not return the favor), but who is ready to give as good as they get. I want a sensuous woman who is not afraid to just go for it and totally enjoy the moment. I will admit that I like women who ARE women in every sense of the word - meaning feminine. Not really into the butch types (sorry, just a preference).
Yes, I am happily married but this is just for me (unless, somewhere down the line, a lady (only) would like to join hubby and I - but this is not necessarily a requirement.)...COLOR sienna]
I love toys, but I don't like games (unless it is dress up or role-playing). I am not looking just for a sex buddy (though that's cool too), but would love someone with whom I can have an intelligent conversation and maybe just chill and shop or watch a movie.
As far as couples, I am open to it since I realize that most bi-women are attached to someone. We'll just have to talk and see what happens, play it by how we feel after we've communicated a bit. But please have your stuff together, I am not trying to bring any extra crazy to your crazy. If both are not 100% into it, then I am 100% out of it.
As for men, I will admit that a sugar daddy type of arrangement would make me way more open to the idea. I know that may sound bad, but hey I'm just being real. Husband is awesome and knows exactly where to go to get me there! However, we are in a recession so every little bit helps.
But in the case of men, I like manly men types. I love a man who is sure of himself and knows his way around the female anatomy. I'm not good at the "slam bam thank you", I like getting to know the person at least on the casual acquaintance or cool to chill with level. You don't have to tell me you love me, but we should at least be able to have a conversation about something other than sex in between.
Intelligence is the sexiest thing to me in a man or a woman. On par with that would be a good sense of humor. I love to laugh and have fun. In fact, orgasms usually make me laugh.
What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Prince, Jill Scott, Anita Baker, Public Enemy, Ice Cube,
Reba, Patti, Inda.Arie, Luther, Mary J.
Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
Have to explain it later...but it involves an a book club
and an erotic lesbian novel.
What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Fetishes, Light Bondage, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds, Massage
Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Queen Latifah and Jill Scott
Have you ever had cybersex?:
I have cybersex quite often.
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