My Ideal Person:
Lately I have become very frustrated with this site, and have even contemplated leaving it. Then I did some self evaluation, and decided that I need to be more clear about what I am looking for. I get invited to swingers parties all the time, but I don't like to go as a single female, and I hate trying to find someone to go with me who doesn't flake out. I am looking for a man who is experienced, or wants to become experienced in the swingers lifestyle. He should be open to the possibility of the relationship becoming long-term. Not right away, but the possibility should be there just like any other dating relationship. Don't freak out! I'm not looking to start picking out china patterns. In fact I'm not even sure that is in my future at all. Just want someone who is open to letting things happen naturally, and is not closed minded to the possibility of an on going connection. In other words if you are looking for a one night stand, or you live out of state and only visit occasionally, stop here. If you are looking for that one woman to play with excluding all others, then again stop here. I am looking for someone to explore with. You should enjoy going out from time to time, maybe dinner and dancing leading up to a sensual end of to the evening. I don't want all of your time, just some of it. I am looking for someone who will be my friend, and lover. Someone who is secure enough with themselves to really enjoy an open relationship. You should want to play as a couple as well as separately on occasion. You should be very passionate, and sexually adventurous. I am not interested in exchanging endless e-mails or chatting for hours on end, nor am I interested in adding my erotic pictures to someones cache. To sum it up I am seeking that person who is truly interested in cultivating an exciting adult relationship. My philosophy when it comes to a committed relationship is, you can share your body with whom ever you like, but your thoughts, dreams, hopes, and fears should only be shared with me. I don't ask for anymore than I am willing and able to give in return.
Must be physically fit, intelligent, but please don't take yourself too seriously. I love a man who can make me laugh, and who sings in the shower. Please have a fulfilling life of your own. We should enhance each others lives, not dominate or drain them.
On another note. I feel the need to be more specific due to some of the responses I have received.
1st.. I am not looking for a series of one night stands! If you are presenting yourself as a candidate for the plus one or more position, that's fine too. But finding my steady playmate is priority one.
2nd When I say that being physically fit is important, that means it is a must. I don't mean to be rude, but let's be honest. We are all attracted to certain things, and you can't have chemistry or passion without physical attraction. During the course of normal life, we find ourselves having to compromise, and settle at times. therefore I refuse to settle when in comes to what I want here. Don't get me wrong physical attraction is no more important than intellectual attraction. They are equally important! Intelligence is a most.
3rd... I understand the need for discretion. If you contact me, please attach a picture. Although I love cocks as much as the next girl... when it comes down to it they all pretty much look the same (some are prettier than others).You might as well send me a picture of your elbow, it would tell me just as much about you. So can I see a torso and better yet a face? Am I asking too much?
No attached men. A little hint guys, if your relationship status reads prefer not to say... guess what you just did! Don't try any Jedi mind tricks on me to convince me as to why I should make an exception for you. None means none.
Enough of all that! If you like what you read, and you think we might be a match,contact me. I promise you won't be disappointed!