Aloha, I am looking to find replacements for all of the soul-sucking acquaintances who have managed to worm there way into my existence. I am tired of being drained by these user/abuser people. I am now taking the required steps to rid myself of these people and this pattern; to surround myself with people who are like me. I am looking for kind, compassionate, socially aware and loving people (male or female).I am free of any relationship and have been for several years. I am healed and ready to begin life anew. Are you a person who is able and willing to be a friend to a person who has many good qualities and only wants to share their life with people who will be uplifting instead of a hindrance? I am intelligent, kind, compassionate and full of love to give platonic or not. I promise you will not be disappointed in my level of awareness and ability to be a good friend to you. I have also found myself in the second half of my life in the surreal condition where each of my lovers have passed away and the enclave I thought I had created to love and be loved in the second half of my life has disappeared. I have had a couple of bad experiences and I have decided to try this venue as a means of meeting a man. Someone to enter my life and become great friends with or without benefits. I have no strings attached and carry only the lightest amount of emotional baggage. I do not like to play games and I hope you are willing to be honest and clean. If I die tomorrow, I would have lived my life knowing, that my life no matter how small or unimportant I thought it was, was worth living, because I experienced all I ever could, I have felt love in it's smallest and greatest measure, happiness, joy , sadness, anger, hurt, betrayal, abandonment, loss, pain and despair. The times I spent that were the hardest in my life, don't seem to matter as much anymore because when I look back on what I had, and didn't have, and what I have gone through, I still found myself to be one of the lucky ones, I survived and really in the end that's all that matters. I have had the privilege of friendship, companionship, motherhood, sisterhood, and true love or so I thought, I have been in rags and I have had riches and as of this moment I am feeling the warmth of being comfortable. I don't pretend to be a perfect person, in fact I am far from it, but I am real, true and full of life, I have done some things I have not been proud of in my life and I have my faults, but I think I am a good person at least I have tried to be. I have traveled distances far, and I have seen some of what the world has to offer, but when I look back on my life, I feel as though I got the best it had to give. If I died tomorrow, I would have no regrets of what my life has become. I would part this world knowing not only did I leave my mark on it for all eternity but it also left its marks on me. I look forward to meeting you. Aloha and peace

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
The beach, The middle of a park, A remote wilderness spot

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Mutual Masturbation, exhibitionism

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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