My Ideal Person:
I would likes someone who is open, honest, and trustworthy (to keep secrets) The guy/gal should be funloving and open to try new things without being pushy and try to pressure into things that are not comfortable to everyone. Of course he or must be clean and take reasonable care of themselves. I don't expect someone who is totally buff because I'm not totally buff.
I'm not hung up on size. Small is fine and fun for what I like to do.
Just be fun loving and comfortable in who you are without a lot of guilt hang-ups.