This site has been very good to meet some high quality men and I am feeling very blessed. I thought I was polyamorous, could love two people at the same time, but now believe I am open-minded, but I know I am a one man woman. My membership is about up and I have decided to let it lapse. They will probably keep it visible. After this last guy, "just got out of a LTR, I just want to screw around", this probably isn't my site. Onetantra is probably better. At this age, I need a life companion. I went to burning man last year for the first time and I plan to do that every year as well as, going to New Orleans for Jazzfest. I can take care of my own needs...ie: travel and expect you be able to do the same. I have timeshares in both New Orleans and Kauai. I don't visit Kauai as often, but would still expect that this person could afford to share all expenses. I will be looking for a travel partner Oct 10-24th in St. Maarten Pelican Club. , so a certified diver, is also a plus. Besides the night dive with the Mantas, the other Hawaiian diving isn't good enough for me. I'm spoiled by having dove the Red Sea in 1993, so everything else has a hard time living up. I'm not that political and extremely hetero, but if you voted Yes on Prop 8, just move on. We are not here to judge others. Everyone has the right to marry.
I make plans in advance. I hold my time for friends. Please be respectful of other people's schedules. Last minute cancellations, are now, no longer tolerated, so please, be an adult when making a date. In other words, I have had my time wasted so much by people, I need you to live local.I am not into endless e-mails so you must live local!! I am specifically attracted to people who are avail./single/ and like volleyball, tennis,swimming, or cycling.
DONT FLIRT! I WILL NOT RESPOND. Also, if you decide to write, please tell me something about yourself. The one liners are also getting to the point of being ignored. If you live far away, I will not respond unless you say you come here often or you are moving here. NO ATTACHED/MARRIED MEN!!!!! It only takes a few to ruin it for the rest of them but I'm sorry....no one under 40 yrs. old... You young-uns are too self absorbed and flaky. Sorry for being so detailed but I think this is the best way to be clear and stop some in-appropriate e-mail.
Have fun out there!!!
My Ideal Person:
My ideal friend would be someone who knows how to communicate, even when there are disagreements. Someone who loves their work and can still take some time off. Grown children would be best as I have never been married or had children. (I took care of my Mom before she died.) I love to sail. I am not looking for just a FWB or FB. I really want the whole relationship thing...so if you are just a user/player , I've been there done that. That being said, I'd still rather have relationships that are great sexually so this might be the right place. The benefits have to include friendship. The passion of heart felt Tantric sexual practice is so addicting, one can only strive for that level of love and respect. It doesn't happen enough for so many people out there. Namaste'
What are your favorite musicians or bands?: the subdudes, fourplay, roy rogers and the delta rythmn kings, Henry Butler, Bonnie Raitt, Little Fe
What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?: A remote wilderness spot
What types of sexual activities turn you on?: Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Massage
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