I am an extremely independent and driven woman. I know what I want in life and I am working on getting it. I work a lot, so my time is limited. In my free time I enjoy spending time with friends and being social. I love going to dinner or having drinks with people when I can, and I also ballroom dance. I go to the gym several times a week and try to focus on living a healthy lifestyle. My career path is the criminal justice field. All aspects of it interests me. I will soon become a part of the justice system, working in policing.

My Ideal Person I am looking for someone who is strong, intelligent and knows what they want in life. I want a man that is okay being alone, but also enjoys the companionship a woman has to offer. I do not like guys who follow me like a puppy dog, but I demand respect as well.

I want a man who has set goals for himself and has met them or is working on them. Bottom line is you must have goals. I don't expect someone to support me so I want someone who can hold their own too.

Lastly, I feel I must stress the fact that you must use your brain if you want me to be interested in the slightest. Sending pictures of your manhood with only an email saying "hey baby, let's get together" will only result in being ignored and deleted.

I am an intelligent woman and I don't have time for games and drama. I love to laugh and have a good time, but I am quite serious about my career and where I headed in life.

Basically I am looking for that happy medium in a guy. Someone who is both independent and loving. Someone who loves life and lives it to the fullest.

Can you laugh at yourself when you fall, then pick yourself back up and start again? I can and would love to find a man who can do the same.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
No particular place, A bed, The beach, Under a waterfall, My desk at work, A swimming pool or hot tub, A hotel room

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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