   
Hello, I am an older white lady, been married for many years. My husband (who is straight) loves it when I invite single black men to meet me. He doesn't participate but does enjoy watching me occasionally.
The perfect scenario: Perfect Scenario
I have included women to the list of people I wish to meet. Let me add that I am only passively bi-sexual. However, I would love to meet local ladies who are into some of the things I am into. I am also interested in meeting couples for female / male / female encounters.
Here is a big tip for you... people who contact me... if you haven't read our profile and at least some of our blog entries... you're starting out with 2 strikes against you. Find out who I am, my likes and dislikes. Then you will have a better idea if your wasting our time as well as yours.
Special note: I have a blog whitewhife4black that my husband has been posting to. You will find a variety of additional information about me and there are several polls included that we can have some fun with. Be sure and visit it.
I enjoy entertaining in my home and I also love it when a gentleman asks me out on a date to go listen to music and dance. Dinners and movies are fun, bowling, whatever! I especially enjoy being invited out to enjoy things that maybe I don't do myself all the time. Or, maybe we can just talk a walk at the mall and Window shop. You decide!
I work a really weird schedule (in a resturant) so my days off and shift hours vary every week. In fact, I can never make plans beyond the next coming Friday because I won't know my schedule until Thursday night.
I can meet sometimes during the day when my husband is at work however I typically prefer that at least my initial meeting with someone is when he can meet and get to know us both.
My husband is very active in helping me the lifestyle and in fact usually does all the computer side stuff (chatting, email, etc) for me. I much prefer to talk to my guys over the phone (or in person).
If there is one major piece of advice I can offer, it is to have patients when trying to hook up with me. My husband and I have been in the lifestyle for many years and although I do like variety in my life... I already have a number of very close friends who I see now and then and sometimes, you have to go out of your way and make sure they are taken care of.
As to what I am into... well, first off, although I am not 'exclusive' to black men... if your not black... your chances are slim. Opps... change that... let's just say I am 100% exclusive to black. I love the skin contrast and I love the way 'most' black men treat me and respect my permenent relationship with my husband.
I'm not into anal so don't even bring it up. Also, not into B&D or S&M although I have played a couple of games blindfolded before.
I'm not a BBW but certainly not a Barbie either. I'm ok with oral but I don't like making a night of just that. If I have a passion, it is full body massage. I love getting them and like to recipricate back. Frankly, some of my favorite times in the lifestyle is when my husband and I are setting around watching television, and I have a friend over and I'm getting a foot massage during the show.
My husband doesn't participate usually... he enjoys watching or at least hearing about my activities later. He says he found out he loved seeing me receive pleasure so long ago he forgot when it was.
We are real people and probably some of you on this web site already know us. The one thing I will stress is that being a no-show is a great way to get totally off our 'possibles' list permenantly.
No-shows and fakes are by far the worst thing in this lifestyle. It especially makes it hard on the single guys to meet single ladies and willing wives or couples. I know, some ladies and couples are also fakes and no-show 'regulars' but that's not us.
We rarely travel so if you are beyond maybe 35 miles of us... be prepared to come here. Also, if you are more than an hour by car from us... with today's gas prices and just the cost of time itself... you may find me a bit reluctant to schedule. I've found that 95% of people at 100 miles or more will be no-shows. And, with my work schedule and the conflicting schedule of my husband... I can't afford to make plans with someone and have them bum out on us.
Feel free to ask us any questions you might have or suggest fantasies. Nothing is taboo to ask. One of my all time fantasies was to recently experienced which was to have an experience in the sleeper cab of a big rig.
Carol : 
    
My Ideal Person:
Ideal person?
Well, I would say it would be someone who lives close by, is black of course, single, maybe 38 to 60... who would enjoy a quiet evening setting around visiting with my husband and I regardless if we have sex.
I am also somewhat turned on when my guy has a preference for white ladies such as myself.
This person should be a master at giving massage and loves to give me full body and foot massages.
My husband says that he should be someone who is not afraid or shy to give me affection... both in public and when we are just chilling. And that he should understand that we are 100% sure in our relationship and that this lifestyle simply gives us the freedom to have good times with other.
He should also be someone who wants more than just coming over now and then for a quickie. I like to get out and do things and go places.
I like to be treated like a single lady (most of the time) but my guys need to understand that this is a friends with benefits thing for us. I have no plans to change husbands,
I like to be seduced! I'd rather that a man who meets me come to the table with seduction in mind rather than thinking he is simply guaranteed to 'get me'. 
Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
Here are two... in the back of a limo having sex while being
driven around town. Second, on the beach but it would need
to be private. Not really into public sex.
Recently had a long term fantasy realized and that was to
do it in the sleeper cab of an 18 wheeler.
What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
The beach, A swimming pool or hot tub, At a nightclub, Anywhere
What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Role Playing, Threesomes, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Blindfolds, Massage
Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Who hasn't... Denzil maybe?
Have you ever had cybersex?:
No way. I only want skin on skin.
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