When I go out, it's about finding something new to do, and enjoying it. On Sunday afternoons I like to get out of the house and go for a walk or a drive. For me a perfect Friday night is looking for adventure-and finding it. Sexually, I'm pretty open to a "friends with benefits" situation. Commitment-wise, I just want a secret no-strings fling that gives us both what we're missing. I get along best with people who are willing to push the envelope in bed and out of it. I look forward to putting the recent past behind me. I'm not changing my life, I'm just turning up the volume on my leisure time. If you contact me please give me some time to reply as I get a lot of mail.