It's finally worn me down. To have to go through hundreds of letters from solo males, I finally have to say, "NO SOLO MALES". Sorry about this. After being married for a few years, I find myself looking again. It will probably be awhile before I attach myself again, and have always wanted to try this direction. I am stable, have a job, make a living, and have a private life. Adult Friend Finder is meant to be a pleasant diversion to meet new people, NOT something that runs my life.

My Ideal Person I need to see what you look like if you want to contact me. There must be a face shot OF EACH PARTICIPANT in your profile, or you need to send one to me WITH YOUR FIRST CORRESPONDENCE. I will block those that can't follow this simple request. This cuts down on the gameplayers and "endless e-mails".

Also, I'll generally only accept network invitations if you have pics in albums of your own. Fair is fair.

Since being on this site, I've gotten a lot of solo male inquiries, just as I was told would happen. Guys, just for the record, I just got rid of a guy who did nothing but cheat with multiple people during our marriage. Even when I offered to "swing" with him.

Yes, what I do want to meet are females and couples to just have some fun with for awhile. I'm a very frisky person when we get to the playing stage, and can even get downright raunchy and nasty. But I'm also a lady who expects to be treated as such until we reach that stage.