Ask and I'll tell you. OK...NO PENIS PICTURES...IF THE ONLY PICTURE YOU HAVE IS OF YOUR PENIS I'M NOT INTERESTED...I WON'T RESPOND OR EVEN READ YOUR PROFILE. I KNOW YOUR PROUD OF IT...BUT SERIOUSLY IF THAT'S THE ONLY THING YOU HAVE TO BRING TO THE TABLE...THEN JUST DON'T BOTHER!! 6/11/13...ok I've been away for awhile because of computer problems...I'm back now and able to respond to e-mails so don't hesitate to contact me...but like I've said MANY times before...key word is RESPECT... without it...its unlikely you will get a response... so just a hint...please don't waste my time or yours...saves us both a lot of trouble. This journey I'm very serious about...I know there is someone out there who is looking for the same thing...we just gotta find each other :-). With that being said...thank you sincerely for viewing my profile and considering what I have to say and what I'm about. Update 2/18/2012...I feel a need for some clarification...while I understand folks typically view this site as a sex site...that is not the only thing I am looking for...I really wish to find something real that will lead to something long term. There is a lot to be said for having someone there at the end of the day to lean on and provide support and comfort. I had that once and the romantic part of me believes there are still good people out there who are searching for the same thing. If you believe you are that per...please don't pass me by...you won't be sorry. Oh and btw...for those folks who insist on approaching me with a "hey baby will you tie me up"...I'm very submissive...I have no desire to tie someone up. I couldn't if I tried. In order for me to proceed with any kind of bondage activity or bdsm activity I have to have huge trust in that other per and that takes some time to develop. Get to know me. It just may be worth your while. Please note...the way to get a response from me on this site is by being respectful in the way you approach me. Its always in the first impression whether I will respond at all. Just a hint. smiles Oh...and another thing lol...for the many folks who think they are gonna have the good fortune to tie me up the first time we meet...think again. Any form of bondage (or anything else for that matter) takes a great deal of trust. It takes time for that to be established. If you're not willing to put in the time or respect that, then you're not for me. That being said...I would love to hear what your likes and dislikes are...please stop by and say hello. ----///-\\\----Put This ---|||---|||---On Your ---|||---|||---Profile If ---|||---|||---You Know ----\\\-///----Someone -----\\///-----Who Has Died ------///\-----Of -----///\\\----Cancer ----///--\\\---Or Who May Be Suffering From It

My Ideal Person UPDATE: CUTTING TO THE CHASE...IF YOU ARE MARRIED OR OTHERWISE INVOLVED, PLEASE DON'T CONTACT ME. I WISH YOU WELL BUT I'M NOT INTERESTED.

When I am asked this particular question, my normal response is I am looking for my best friend. Whatever else happens is truly icing on the cake for me. To my way of thinking friendship has to be the basis for any relationship. In the end if I'm left with that I figure I'm ahead of the game. I would like to meet people who I can laugh with and have a good time with both in and out of the bedroom. If you think you are that person, please feel free to contact me. If the only thing you want out of this is a one night stand...then please don't bother. That's not what I'm here for. If you are not the person for me, I wish you well in your search.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, The beach, A moving vehicle (i.e. car), The middle of a park, An airplane, A movie theatre, Under a waterfall, My desk at work, A swimming pool or hot tub, An elevator, A hotel room

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Fetishes, Light Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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