People are here for all sorts of reas. It's a numbers game for whatever you're looking for. Don't be an ass about it..just accept it and move on ;) When the moods strikes, it's that select few that will grab my attention. The one that understands the intellectual dance. Hearing raw emotion, especially at a whisper, that slow build...watching and hearing, feeling my body respond before I even realize it. And sometimes it's hard and loud and dirty, but not crass. I wish more men would understand the difference lol. WARNING: Any institutions using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects - You do NOT have my permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a serious violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications

My Ideal Person My Ideal Person? hmmm...Ideal doesn't exist but women definitely have a way of creating unrealistic fantasies.

Attraction comes in many forms and it's subjective for everyone. For me, it's the mind. If I respect and trust, I love and give 100%. To give is also to give up control and trust I'll be protected. To be controlled is both sexual and intellectual.

I need a man that has the voice that can be soft and gentle as he is laying next to me quietly and erotically explaining how he is about to take my body or one that can be firm and demanding as he is standing over me directing his desires, both capable of achieving the same result. He's a man with a language that makes you want to run, but draws you back every time. A mature, intellectual, confident but humble man with a quick wit.

He's a man that wants to explore new territory with each other, teaching while learning. He can push limits safely and knows when and how to keep pushing. A man that understands and appreciates the rewards of letting me be myself, finding that the true attraction. He will never humiliate, denigrate, or inflict pain. He's the true fantasy; the protector, the lover, the friend, the savior, the master and yet the ultimate equal.

Having said ALL that and having spent some time here, I thought I'd also use this space as an opportunity to give you all some pointers. Some specific to me, but others are just basic 101 do's and don't's when it comes to pics and camming. Trust me...

1. NO SOCKS. You got everything else off but kept the socks? If it's cold, turn up the heat lol
2. In case it needs to be clarified, No socks AND shoes. BIG no no
3. No underwear around your knees or ankles. Really? Couldn't go that extra 6 inches to the floor?
4. Holes in the underwear are grounds for immediate cam shut down. Don't bother im'ing to ask me what's wrong.
5. Don't call me ma'am. Don't call me Mistress. Don't show me your panties. I'm not interested...move along.
6. Married men...sorry...I know you're hot and horny, so horny in fact you're willing to do anything, which is in itself is a turn on, but the marriage thing doesn't work for me. I have an allergy to it.
7. Dirty or long fingernails...omg, it makes me ill just typing it.
8. Alternative clothing..any garment that you have altered to allow for "easy access" should be illegal, but at a minimum it's a fashion double don't. There is nothing sexy about seeing your franks and beans peeking out of the hole in bottom of your boxers or out from under the leg of a pair of sweat pant shorts.
9. In the bathroom (hiding)? And I don't mean standing by the sink. Are you flippin' kidding me?
10. Squeaky wooden chairs. Also known as icepicks in the ears. Good luck with that.

Laugh a little. This is supposed to be fun. Be nice, play nice, and have fun!

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Fetishes, Light Bondage, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Experience in a certain role (top/bottom; master/slave), Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Creativity/Kinkiness level

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