[B][I][COLOR deeppink]“Sex is part of nature. I go along with nature.” ― Marilyn Monroe[/COLOR][/I][/B] I've walked the wild side here before, but opted out and lived a very vanilla life for awhile. Vanilla becomes boring; so.....here I am, looking to go Spumoni again. Me: Mature, easy on the eyes, full bodied woman with expressive eyes. a nice smile and a solid sense of self. I have class, tons of it, but I enjoy & miss sharing my raw side. I'm meaty vs. thin, fit but not tight bodied, confident but far from arrogant, intelligent but no Einstein; humorous but no Seinfeld. I can be blonde today and a red head tomorrow. But I always, always smile. I am your average American woman, just with a twist. There is a whole other realm of my sexuality waiting to be tapped into; a side I've always known existed, but until recently left unexplored. My desire is to eventually find a partner with whom I can generate the trust and comfort zone to explore with. WHO I AM NOT: not here to add or be a notch in a bedpost, a /slut, a husband stealer, MILF, Cougar, sex the. ego booster or "cyber sub". No worries of a "jealous" husband as we have been in an open marriage for years...we have played together and separately...but now we've gone our separate ways sexually. We live by the motto "don't ask, don't tell".

My Ideal Person The ideal friend & playmate would be easy on the eyes, easy on the mind, well established in his life personally and financially. Admittedly, I am partial to eyes that speak louder than words, ruggedness and assertive yet gental personalities

I prefer a man who prefers woman. While I am as open minded as they come and feel we should all explore out sexuality to it's limit and admit that bi encounter can be hot, its not the lifestyle I personally would have chosen to marry into. It's taken it's toll on me sexually. I NEED a man who NEEDS a woman with no strings, no drama & no head games.

This "someone" would like get together on a regular basis, enjoy one another's company & sexuality - then return home to his "real life" without any risk of intrusion. I am NOT here change my life, ruin anyones else's, or to cause complications or drama. Rather, I'd like to be the friend in your life who awakens your sexuality as much as you awaken mine. Someone who puts a smile on your face and lets you "explode" for a few hours a week & helps you forget the mundane of your reality. I ask for nothing in return but the same.

Responses with a recent face pic and intellect that intrigue me will catch my attention. Frankly, I don't care what your cock looks like; I'm more interested in the tool's operating system rather than the tool itself.

While I am not looking for Adonis, I have to admit that physical attraction is important. Eyes that hold desire, hands that can be as rough as they are gentle and a smile that makes me damp would suit me perfectly.

I need electricity at first eye contact. We could email & talk for days, but if we meet and it's not there - it's just not there. No apologies, no guilt..NO expectations!

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
A quiet spot in the park on a rainy day, no one is around, the
smell of summer is in the air. I kneel before you, looking
up to watch the rain roll off your shoulders, down your ehest
and onto my lips as I savor your flavor. Nothing is quite
as erotic as getting lost in you in the pouring rain. <br><br>
Fulfilled...a sunny summers day in that same park...him,
me and a sturdy old tree. High heels sinking into the soft
ground below, my back arched, my dress flipped up over my
ass, his hands firmly on my hips as his cock pounded me sweetly and deeply. The only sounds in the park that day
were moans of pleasure and small scurrying animals. <br><br>
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My mind wanders and my body yearns for forbidden fantasies...a
gang bang...glory hole...a public place...a private place....BUT NEVER A CAR ....

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A dark back alley, A remote wilderness spot

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Light Bondage, Threesomes, Participating in Erotic Photography, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc.

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
No thanks....they have too many issues...lol

Have you ever had cybersex?:
No way. I only want skin on skin.

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