Status: Dating someone who I like a whole lot. No longer looking. I mean it. Let me repeat: I have a lover who delights me,so, no, Thank You, I won't meet for coffee or sex or... I REALLY MEAN IT. Happy with my lover and my friends.
N.B., only 2 of the photographs are of me. Hint: I have on clothes. I am 51 and not an erotic model, at least not professionally! This disclaimer for the angry or clue-free. I am, in point of fact, both streetable and fuckable, and those who need to know that, do.
I am here to blog and read and play with my friends. Read my blog if you need further explanation.
ShyandSweet08 All Sexed Up and Nowhere To Go
No crazies,drama,stress,hostility,sadism, masochism,racism, stupidity, anger, drugs or smoking desired. As Jack Nicholson said, "Sell crazy someplace else, we're all stocked up here". (As Good As It Gets, 1997) You should be intelligent, honest, affectionate, passionate, positive, and enjoy humor and tenderness as well as sizzle. Excessive love of books and dogs is okay, as long as you don't LOVE your dog.(The Truth About Cats and Dogs, 1996)
DO NOT send me a picture of your cock - If I want to see it, ever, I'll make that evident. Otherwise, keep it in your pants. Not interested if you are under 45, an addict, a smoker, or a rabidly extreme right winger politically. Your ability and tendency to think,speak, and write cogently is highly prized. Caveman-like utterances are valued only when appropriate. Know when to talk dirty.
Do us both a favor and don't send me a message you think is funny until you know me. Trust me, humor doesn't always convey. Honesty and clear communication make a better approach all around. Please use Spell Check. Typos happen, but inattention to detail and/or stupidity are not attractive attributes. If you feel the need to criticize me, my blog, my response to you or non-response, my politics or anything else, refrain. Respectful discourse is welcomed. If you want or need to know more, read my blog. All Sexed Up and Nowhere to Go. (Sending me an email asking "tell me about yourself" indicates that you are a big maroon (Bugs Bunny). Try to work on that. It is not appealing).
I like to blog, I like the bling, I love movies and great writing, I am a sucker for smart, good people. Black & White erotic photography, well-written sexy stuff, dark chocolate, genuine emotion and intellectual engagement make me swoon.
My Ideal Person:
Friendship is the most important component. Long term friend and lover is my goal . I adore great sex: I'm not interested in having it with anyone and everyone. I desire a passionate, highly - sexed man who is discriminating about who he is with, and values same in his partner. Talking,laughing and playing are all important for me. Wit, honesty, and openness are indispensable.
Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!: I'll share them with my lover. I have an active imagination! My erotic writing is revealing about what turns me on. The Original "Swept Away" or "Body Heat" or "No Way Out" or ... lots of erotic movie scenes!
What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?: A bed, The beach, An airplane, A remote wilderness spot, Under a waterfall, A swimming pool or hot tub, An elevator, A hotel room, Anywhere
What types of sexual activities turn you on?: Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Mutual Masturbation, Blindfolds, Massage, fun
Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?: Not really-- I like real men.
Have you ever had cybersex?: I've tried it, but it's just not the same.
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