I am a good girl with a naughty side who likes a man who is take-charge and dominant in the bedroom. I am sensual and love to touch and be touched. I am not into BDSM, being humiliated or called names, or serving a master. It is all about pleasure.
I tend to like a variety of traditional, straight forward sex and kinky, experimental sex. I like trying new things as long as it appeals to both involved
I am straight and am kind of interested in exploring sex with another women, but You'll have your hands full with me.
I am educated, opinionated, direct, assertive, independent and kind, thoughtful, and loyal
Yes, I am slow to meet, so don't take it personally. My time is a currency, and I choose to spend it as it suits me.
My Ideal Person:
A nice guy who knows how to take charge in the bedroom and stimulates my body and mind. Extra points if you are a good kisser who actually enjoys kissing.
Please be interesting, intelligent, and have a sense of humor. It seems loyalty and honesty went out of fashion, but they will get you a second look from me.
Physical attraction is very important, but subjective. You must be taller than I am, preferably by at least a few inches, and you must be straight.
It is hard for me to describe what I am looking for, but I know it when I encounter it.
I am NOT interested if:
-You are a liar or a player. If you quibble about the definition of either, you are probably one or both. Please move on. We will not be a good match.
-You are married or attached. I will not be part of creating heartache for your wife. Besides, if you are not strong enough to leave a bad marriage, you are not strong enough to handle me. If you have not specified a marital status in your profile, I consider you married.
-You are a blabbermouth or lack common sense. If we use IM to chat or if we communicate via e-mail or phone, or if by some act of God we actually meet, what I say to you is between you and me. Don't ask me about it in the room or talk about it behind my back...it is not yours to tell.
If you feel the desire to tell me what others have confided in you, betray elsewhere. I don't want to hear it. It doesn't make me feel close to you, but it does tell me how you will treat my confidences.
-You are a drama magnet. We all have challenges and rough patches, but if every conversation is ONLY or primarily about you and/or your current drama, that gets boring quickly.
If you have drama swirling around you, maybe it's because you like it.
-You are passive-aggressive, pout to get your way, or unable or unwilling to communicate.
-You don't have a backbone. Stand up to me and feel free to have an opinion. I like nice guys, not doormats. If it is more important to you to be liked than to be who you are, get some self esteem.
-You are verbally or emotionally abusive(physically and sexually go without saying). If you attack others in the room or make derogatory remarks about women, don't bother to talk to me. If you trash talk the people in your life to me, I know you are doing the same about me when you talk to them.
-You think a woman's role during sex is to provide friction for you. Please know (or be interested in learning) enough about a woman's anatomy to make it good for me too. If you think that is solely my responsibility, then I don't need you, do I?
-You want to "hook up" five minutes after you speak to me in the chat room. I am not desperate, and I find desperation in men extremely unattractive. If you feel compelled to ask me, "What are you looking for tonight?"....well, don't. I know this is a sex site, but I didn't check my common sense at the door.
-You are under 35. Any man who thinks of me as an "older woman" is too young for me. Don't try to talk me out of this. When you disregard my saying "no," you are proving my point.
-You are looking for a sugar-mama. You need to be able to take care of yourself.
-You resort to name calling out of frustration or as a means of manipulation (or any other reason you try to justify). When your vast vocabulary and command of the English language fail you, and you scrape bottom with the use of words such as tease, flake, bitch, etc., I am not offended, but it sure tells me a lot about you.
-You use the excuse "...but all men are that way." No, they are not. Don't use gender as an excuse for your unappealing behavior.
p.s. Your clever comments about how long my profile is make me wonder if reading is a challenging activity for you. You might want to keep that one to yourself.
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