I make no pretense of precisely what I am looking for so please read my ENTIRE profile before attempting to contact me. Those who are a good fit for me will appreciate what they read here. The rest...well, your happiness is but a single click away.
Many may notice that I am taking advantage of the absolutely wonderful feature provided by Adult FriendFinder that prevents anyone from contacting me if they do not match my cupid settings (I don't count flirts since I don't look at them anyway). I have been encouraged to use this feature by the myriad of individuals who just look at the photos and refuse to read my profile. Let's just say that I am doing my part in the global effort to reduce useless waste of bandwidth.
Please note that I am never interested in short-term visitors to Denver so please do not ask. I am interested only in local men. Local means that you live in the Denver area. It does not mean that you are in Denver for n-days per week, or whatever else may be considered as "close enough".
Please note I am not interested in play partners outside of the age range of 40-50. For couples, this applies to both partners.
For those to whom I respond with a "Thank you, but I am not interested..." message, please leave it at that and be content. Even if I could explain the reasoning behind my response I would likely choose not to because initial attraction is in the eye of the beholder and not something easily explained. For those little people who feel compelled to call names and the like, let it be known now that I am not the least bit offended because such responses simply reinforce my initial impression to an even greater degree. To those individuals I can only say that it is perfectly okay to go away mad as long as you go away completely as well.
It is unfortunate to have to put these caveats at the beginning of my profile but it does seem to be a challenge for many to even get this far. Also, please resist the need to write to me pointing out that my profile has 'too many restrictions' or rules, or whatever. Yes, if one or more of them apply to you then that would define 'too many' in your case. That is true. Let us agree on that and move on.
About Me ---
I am a sensual and fit professional woman who very much enjoys casual dating with respectful, classy, and well educated local (within 30 miles) men between 40 and 50. I have been married for 29 years and my husband encourages me to date as a single woman (open marriage). He is not present or involved in any way. My husband enjoys my being with other men and we enjoy our own private time together afterward. Although I play alone, please note that I am not looking for a substitute or a new husband. Please be aware and respectful of this.
I enjoy going out on dates and especially enjoy a nice wine bar or other intimate setting for dinner and/or drinks. I am interested in more traditional occasional dating with benefits. I also often enjoy visiting a man at his home dressed in very hot outfits and being entertained for an evening. My husband makes our home available for visits as well. If the idea of being entertained in my home while I am wearing my latest DreamGirl outfit is something that may be uncomfortable for you, then please do not apply.
On rare occasions I have been with two men and I find that to be very hot as well. I also enjoy being filmed if the comfort level is there.
I have been with local couples on occasion. Sometimes I enjoy being a plaything for hubby when it turns on his lady to see him have a hot time with another woman. I will typically meet BOTH for coffee before arranging for playtime. Please note that I am not bi or bi-curious. I enjoy touching and kissing women, but I am generally not into much more than that.
I very much enjoy being friends with single guys as well as couples and always look forward to casual good times, threesomes, hot tubs, etc. My husband and I have long-term friendships with several of my play partner couples and, although he does not participate, my husband encourages my playtime.
Other things that I like? Jazz, fine wine, BMWs, shoes (my CFM collection would stagger the mind!), and very well dressed GQ men! I also enjoy shopping, working out, and quality time with my girlfriends.
Please be willing to meet for coffee before asking me for a date. Sincerity, class, and chemistry are a must. Please note that if you do not have control enough of your life to set aside two hours to meet for coffee and actually SHOW UP, then move along. If you cancel at the last minute or otherwise flake out then I am done. Move on. Life is way too short to deal with people who cannot seem to effectively manage priorities and if getting together is not going to be a priority then please do not bother to ask me in the first place.
Please make some attempt to introduce yourself as you would in person. I do not respond to one-line "Let's meet.." or "You're hot..." e-mails. Your introduction and profile are all that I have to go by for a first impression and it is very likely that I will make very little effort in my response if very little effort is made to introduce yourself. Push-button-sex fanboys can keep their few seconds of effort. Are there men out there who actually think that works? Good luck with that...
If you are going to send an e-mail then PLEASE do not write in e-speak. Lets pretend that this is not a cell phone and that literacy has some level of importance.
My Ideal Person:
I am very attracted to educated professional men who act and dress the part. I especially enjoy the company of professional black men! Yum!
I enjoy casual dating with respectful and classy men (40-50) who do not mind putting forth some effort in treating me like a woman. If your "style" is to meet me at a bar and then expect me to just put out (typical "swinger" attitude), then please pass me by. I am looking for quality and not quantity. I have several regular play partners and would be interested in perhaps finding a few more. However, I am willing to be as patient as necessary in finding quality play partners. I am in no hurry at all. I also do not run a school for the socially challenged. I want to date men, not just meet at a bar and hop in the sack. If dating 101 is something that completely escapes you, then PLEASE move along. I very much enjoy the sense of romance and sexual tension that goes along with being friends and enjoying the company of another, especially when it leads to more intimate things...
Please be fit and unattached (unless in an OPEN marriage). I am not interested in men who are cheating on their significant other, so please do not contact me if that is the case.
What I Will Do Just Fine Without ---
I am D&D free and expect the same from anyone that I may date. For those who are somewhat confused in life, drug free means that you do not "occasionally toke..." or whatever other exception or rule that you decide to make up. It means drug free (yes, 420 does count). If illegal drugs are ANY part of your life whatsoever, then do not contact me. One who would put sewage into their body will not be putting anything of theirs into mine. Stupid is as stupid does. Dope is for losers and I don't do low-life. Over and out.
Smokers.
"Owe me"s. I absolutely detest and will not tolerate any sense of entitlement from any man. A sense of patience and respect will earn the right man a pathway to success. A sense of feeling that women "owe" them something just because they are on this site will always earn them what they deserve: nothing at all. Also, any man who even remotely thinks that taking a woman to dinner somehow makes her a "dinner whore" can sit at home alone and can stay there for the duration as far as I am concerned. There is a term for such men and it begins with "A" and ends with "HOLE".
I am NOT INTERESTED IN YOUNGER MEN so please do not contact me if you are younger than 40 years old. I am NOT a cougar so boys do not interest me at all.
I am NOT AT ALL attracted to biker types (What's the difference between a Harley and a Hoover? Where the dirtbag is attached), tats, the male "tough" guy thing, immature "bad boys" (who are just that....boys), gun nuts, punks, gangsta wannabes, dopers that have no clue and no future, or men who feel as though they need to make some sort of statement in life as a way of getting attention (You used to be a Navy SEAL or a Marine sniper or blah, blah, blah...). An over-inflated sense of ego (which the overwhelming majority of the time is vastly unjustified anyway) does not make a "real man". Real men are quietly comfortable with who they are and what they have accomplished in life and do not need to announce it to the world during every minute of their existence.
In short, one who would feel right at home in a biker bar, trailer park, detention center, or meth lab would likely not be a good fit for me. Normal is good. Gentleness, kindness, and intelligence are very attractive to me.
I am also not at all attracted to facial hair. I know that clean-cut is not really a Colorado thing but it is certainly my thing....
I am NOT AT ALL interested in the man-driven push-button-sex swinger party crowd. So far as I have seen, most of those "couples" are just so-called men who drag their women into the lifestyle simply so they can get laid. In general, I find them to be very shallow and self-centered with a sense of entitlement that I will never understand. Should one not fit into what they consider to be "acceptable" behavior (put out or get out), they seem hell-bent on proving just how petty they really are. FWB is a sad joke with these people. They also say "No means no" and that works...until you tell them no. I have seen those people literally come unglued because I did not want them to see my profile. But.....no means no, right? Keep it. After all, there is nothing at all sexy about a bunch of immature rock-star wannabes who are seriously in need of a reality check.
PLEASE do not contact me if you have no photos in your profile or if those that you do have are limited to close-ups of your hard on. Hopefully, your successes have been indicative of the effectiveness of that approach. It is completely baffling to me as to why some men seem to think that being "well hung" or "thick" is sexy to a woman. That concept is totally a man thing and nobody wants to see it in a profile. Trust me on that one. For those who would show a photo of their dick and then label it as "this is me..."...well, I will take them as being precisely to their word.
***WARNING: Any institutions or individuals using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects- You DO NOT have my permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a serious violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal action***
What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, A moving vehicle (i.e. car), A swimming pool or hot tub, A hotel room
What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Role Playing, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Leather, Latex, Massage
Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Johnny Depp!! For everything!!
Have you ever had cybersex?:
No way. I only want skin on skin.
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