[SIZE 4][COLOR deeppink][B]Please read my whole profile. I know, it's long BUT it says a lot about me. Thanks! :D[/B][/COLOR][/SIZE] [SIZE 2][B]UPDATE 5/31/11: OK, time to be blunt and maybe even a little bitchy! LOL 1. This site likes to lure people by sending random flirts and views. Just because it says that I have viewed you, doesn't mean that I have! I never want to be hurtful or rude to anyone BUT please stop arguing that I must want you because I viewed you! =)) 2. Also, this site has a major lag issue. Just because it may say that I am online or on IMC, doesn't mean that I am! I am sick and tired of getting nasty emails that I am online and being ignorant, blah blah blah - so sick of it! WTF!!! 3. I am very clear about my priorities - my responsibilities as a parent come before ANYTHING! Yes, my alone time is limited at best. BUT that doesn't mean that I'm lying to you, playing you, neglecting you or anything like that. It means that I am a working single mom and everything else comes after providing and caring for her. Leaving my home alone to meet you for a BJ or to fuck is NEVER going to happen! Really?!?! And some of these guys are parents! Ugh! Again I say - WTF! X( 4. I have made some AMAZING friends here - real, true friends. Thanks for understanding and respecting my priorities and for all the pleasure (not just physical) that you have brought to me! :* xoxoxo[/B][/SIZE] [SIZE 2]Please do not send only pics of your "package"!|-(d I much prefer face pics as I am attracted to amazing eyes and smiles. It doesn't really matter to me what your penis looks like, as I don't base my friendships on penis size. I am about so much more than that! [/SIZE] [/B][/SIZE][I][SIZE 2]Is there a best of both worlds? Here I can't say that I am looking for one man, starting with a FWB and open to more, as I get told that "this is a sex site" only, can't expect to find that here. On the vanilla dating sites, I cant say that I am insatiable, wanting a consistent, compatible lover in my life. So where is the in-between? I want someone who wants to spend time with me, go out and have fun, relax and do nothing......AND who wants to have hot, kinky, no holds barred sex and exploration. A true FWB - does he exist? :/ And yes, I am a BBW - BIG BEAUTIFUL WOMAN...... not body perfect! I know that BBW's arent for all men - im fine with that, really - to each his own. BUT, I am VERY CLEAR about my body type, yet still judged for it! [B]I am NOT going to send you a pic of every part of me so u can decide if I am "too fat" for you. WTF![/B] It's sad that some men think being a BBW means being desperate and asexual....... You are sadly mistaken and are missing out on some amazing women! :P [/SIZE][/I] [I][SIZE 2]I tried the NSA thing - not for me! I need to have some kind of connection, actually know and like the man attached to the penis! LOL [B][I]After all, how can you truly please someone that you dont know?[/I][/B] Doesn't matter if you're single, attached or married - it all starts with friendship.[/SIZE][/I] [SIZE 3][B]I am a hard-working, laid-back, intelligent, uninhibited, affectionate, open-minded, kinky and low-maintenance BBW who loves to laugh and have fun! I am very sensual and erotic - with a submissive soul - and am aching to explore MANY things! /:>[/B][/SIZE] [SIZE 3][B]I am here because I am tired of not being sexually fulfilled I) I am very hungry, sexual and passionate with an insatiable sex drive at times and want a man that is the same :D[/B][/SIZE] [SIZE 3][SIZE 3][I][B]I am not a size queen, so no worries. I dont understand why many women only want monster sized penises? LOL Size doesnt matter to me - as long as it works, i'm good! :7 Even tho I may not be into your kink, I dont judge anybody. I EMBRACE EVERYONE'S INNER FREAK! LMAO [/B][/I][/SIZE][/SIZE][COLOR indigo][/COLOR] [SIZE 2][COLOR deeppink][SIZE 3][I][B][B]On FIRST meet, I will not have sex/oral or meet you at a hotel, in a parking lot or either of our homes - it's not safe! [/B] How about meeting over coffee or a drink, getting to know each other and seeing if there is mutual attraction and the desire to take it to the next step?? I am shocked that many men refuse to use condoms. No safe sex, no Kat's kitty - plain and simple! Way, way, WAY too much out there these days to take chances. I have a that I have to be around for and I'd rather be sexless than to take that risk![/B][/I][/SIZE] [B][I][SIZE 3]My intent is not to come across as a bitch, but as a responsible, intelligent adult. I am just as sexual as everyone else here - I KNOW THIS IS A SEX SITE, but I dont need to be unsafe and make risky choices to show how sexual I am.[/SIZE][/SIZE][/I][/B][/COLOR][/SIZE]

My Ideal Person Im looking for ONE man - a true friend to build trust and feel safe with - to explore the many things that are in my very wild and vivid imagination.

I am looking for a man who looks and feels like a man, not a boy! Body hair and hard working hands are fine with me! I prefer men my height or taller. Good hygiene is a must!

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
My mind is ALWAYS going.....too many to list! ;)

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, The beach, A moving vehicle (i.e. car), The middle of a park, A dark back alley, A movie theatre, A remote wilderness spot, Under a waterfall, My desk at work, A swimming pool or hot tub, An elevator, A hotel room, Anywhere

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Sadomasochism, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Fetishes, Light Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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