I am a curvy, lovely, sexual woman. I have a healthy sexual need. I am looking for someone who understands that sex is mental as well as physical..we have to have something in common to talk about in the down time. I am also interested in a guy to go to the swing clubs with however, all of these items have to come with a decent friendship. I'm in need of a good friends with benefits situation. Not looking to get serious, meet our friends, coupleness or be a daddy kind of situation. Just someone who can buy me a drink at the bar, just to do something fun before the fun.